"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you know avoid dating women of certain profession?

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Do you know avoid dating women of certain profession?

I avoid dating HR women. I hate HR dept.

these women drive me nuts.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I used to be scared of them but I have went out with lawyers and computer programmers and banged them so now I have no fears.
 

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strippers, waitresses, bartenders,hooter girls, prostitutes. Been there, got the tee shirt, too old and too damn busy for those types of shenanigans.
 

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DonS said:
Social workers and nurses.

I know. I'm with you. I hate those nurturing, good hearted women who are natural givers.
 
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fuzzx said:
The best are women with no profession.

I agree with this... I like them stupid and obedient. If they can't speak good English, I'm in love. I just laid it down with my peruvian Princess... I told her if she lies or cheats, I am gone.

She won't be lying or cheating anytime soon.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kingy said:
lol i hope this is a joke..... i mean seriously
No it's not a joke. I have dated all sorts of AMERICAN women, and the one's who have professions are usually BPD and will ruin you.

I love them foreign and stupid.
 

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DonS said:
Social workers and nurses.
Add in teachers, child care workers, counselors, psychologists, liberal lawyers and any woman who works in a 'caring profession'.
Scratch the surface and you see how she really is - self important, opinionated, arrogant ,pompous and convinced that she was sent by God to "help" others ( read, 'control' others )
A relationship with any of these types heads towards a 'parent-child' relationship.
Guess which role she has picked out for you.
 

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Teachers.

I've dated a truckload of teachers last year (not that I purposely looked for them, but for some reason I keep bumping into them) and I'm going on a teacher detox. :D
 

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Depends where they come from. In any western country, a woman without a university education will be datable. University educated makes them nothing more than ****able.

Why?

Because the socialist windbags that most universities produce in droves tend to produce self entitled, man hating feminists in even higher numbers. Women are impressionable and give her a degree, and by default a stamp of approval as an expert in anything, and you will constantly have to deal with her interpretations of a given situation as law. Worse than that is the liberal, left wing thinking these institutions ingrain in so many women . They are indoctrinated further into the man hating, victim mentality that is the problem with modern women and it is spread like a virus within universities. Statistically speaking, university educated women in the west have the highest rate of divorce and that lends some serious weight to my views.

Most university educated women are hard work, but university educated with social sciences of some sort are nearly impossible to date. The only word that describes 95% of them would be "cvnts". So you have your work cut out for you if she has a degree of some sort, especially when its not relevant to her interests. When its a degree in a social science, like psychology for example, you are walking into a sh1tstorm. I have respect for a woman who becomes a doctor. Or an engineer. Or a marine biologist. Most of the time though, she is going to have a major in english literature or marketing or some other stupid **** that is a "passion" because it makes use of her "creativity." Bah, the pretentiousness of it all makes me sick.

Now, give me an educated girl from eastern Europe, Russia or South America any day of the week. I dont even bother trying to discuss politics, history or business with a western woman unless I want her to **** that biker at the bar the same night. I need to keep it "fun" and "light" and tease her all night long like a 5 year old child. If I tried to tease a Russian woman like a 5 year old child and I was only ever "fun" she would think me retarded and shallow. Im happy to **** both of them, I just prefer the company of one more than the other.
 

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Hooligan Harry said:
Depends where they come from. In any western country, a woman without a university education will be datable. University educated makes them nothing more than ****able.

Why?

Because the socialist windbags that most universities produce in droves tend to produce self entitled, man hating feminists in even higher numbers. Women are impressionable and give her a degree, and by default a stamp of approval as an expert in anything, and you will constantly have to deal with her interpretations of a given situation as law. Worse than that is the liberal, left wing thinking these institutions ingrain in so many women . They are indoctrinated further into the man hating, victim mentality that is the problem with modern women and it is spread like a virus within universities. Statistically speaking, university educated women in the west have the highest rate of divorce and that lends some serious weight to my views.

Most university educated women are hard work, but university educated with social sciences of some sort are nearly impossible to date. The only word that describes 95% of them would be "cvnts". So you have your work cut out for you if she has a degree of some sort, especially when its not relevant to her interests. When its a degree in a social science, like psychology for example, you are walking into a sh1tstorm. I have respect for a woman who becomes a doctor. Or an engineer. Or a marine biologist. Most of the time though, she is going to have a major in english literature or marketing or some other stupid **** that is a "passion" because it makes use of her "creativity." Bah, the pretentiousness of it all makes me sick.

Now, give me an educated girl from eastern Europe, Russia or South America any day of the week. I dont even bother trying to discuss politics, history or business with a western woman unless I want her to **** that biker at the bar the same night. I need to keep it "fun" and "light" and tease her all night long like a 5 year old child. If I tried to tease a Russian woman like a 5 year old child and I was only ever "fun" she would think me retarded and shallow. Im happy to **** both of them, I just prefer the company of one more than the other.
Good post HH...

Particularly,"..university educated with (a degree in ) social sciences of some sort.."
I have dated five of those in recent years. All were just hard labor and aggravating in the extreme. Talk about a log on their shoulder..
MY favorite was a special ed teacher with a masters in DipSh!t Learning, and who also had massive case of high functioning BPD... Wow, was she a fun person to have around after a few adult beverages.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Better to avoid any woman in a profession of power or professionist in an human field,harry told you the reasons.
Just keep in mind that stuff like maths or engineering are sure sciences while most of the psychology taugh now is buII****,just remember about the suggestions given to husbands about take back love from their wives.
 

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Whois been with a girl that gets 'Tourette's Syndrome' after a few drinks?

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In comment to this comment. I like them stupid and obedient. If they can't speak good English, I'm in love. I just laid it down with my peruvian Princess... I told her if she lies or cheats, I am gone.
Good thing you like them stupid and obedient because with your mentality thats all you are ever going to get. A smart emotionally healthy woman would run for the hills when she met you. Jeez. You have some security issues I take it.

I agree with the caregivers though, they want to be your mother and personally I don't want to be any man's mother.

A successful woman in any proffesion needs to date a man who is not intimidated by it and a man that knows what he wants and goes after it. A woman's proffesion does not determine the woman neccesarily. How about a dating coach, how would guys feel about dating a dating coach?
 

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jophil28 said:
Good post HH...

Particularly,"..university educated with (a degree in ) social sciences of some sort.."
I have dated five of those in recent years. All were just hard labor and aggravating in the extreme. Talk about a log on their shoulder..
MY favorite was a special ed teacher with a masters in DipSh!t Learning, and who also had massive case of high functioning BPD... Wow, was she a fun person to have around after a few adult beverages.
Could not agree more, with this post and Hooligan's.
 

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robinincarolina said:
A successful woman in any proffesion needs to date a man who is not intimidated by it and a man that knows what he wants and goes after it.
No one is saying they're intimidated by certain professions. They're describing perceived correlations between certain professions and personalities, these personalities belonging to women who would make your life miserable if you dated them.

If you're suggesting that men should desire these qualities and "man-up" in order to date them, then you're providing poor advice.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any woman who is career oriented is usually trouble. If they are career oriented then that means men will have to take a back seat to her career. Fvck that!


They also have bigger egos and that usually spells trouble too.


Hooligan Harry said:
Because the socialist windbags that most universities produce in droves tend to produce self entitled, man hating feminists in even higher numbers. Women are impressionable and give her a degree, and by default a stamp of approval as an expert in anything, and you will constantly have to deal with her interpretations of a given situation as law. Worse than that is the liberal, left wing thinking these institutions ingrain in so many women . They are indoctrinated further into the man hating, victim mentality that is the problem with modern women and it is spread like a virus within universities. Statistically speaking, university educated women in the west have the highest rate of divorce and that lends some serious weight to my views.

Agreed 100%. :up: Feminism has hurt women more then it has helped them. These days they're more unhappy despite having more things and independance etc. The problem is that they're living a life that goes against their nature. You'll also hear alot of career women complaining theres no good men out there.. :crazy:
 

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Hairdressers-- Dumb as dirt and given to constant drama

Teachers--They're not all bad but...well, you just have to date some teachers to know.

Strippers, dancers, actresses, ****tail waitresses, promo girls--No explanation needed

Nurses- C-R-A-Z-Y. No, really.

Also, women in medicine tend to be difficult. They are either VERY Type-A or just don't have the time to give to you. Doctors are notorious for their tumultuous relationships.
 
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I am not suggesting that men are intimidated by women in certain proffesions, although some I am sure are. I guess what I am suggesting is get to know the woman, not her proffesion. Women stereo type men and thier proffesions too.

Contruction worker: Drunks
Hair dressers: Gay
Doctors: Too busy
Factory Workers: High school diploma/no ambition
Engineers: Smart
Salesmen: ****y and confident and fun

Feminism has not hurt women in my opinion, we really don't have a choice, we have to survive as well and some of us not only want to survive, we want to thrive so whats so wrong with that? All we want is a man who is capable of being present with us. Physically and emotionally.
 

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robinincarolina said:
I am not suggesting that men are intimidated by women in certain proffesions, although some I am sure are. I guess what I am suggesting is get to know the woman, not her proffesion. Women stereo type men and thier proffesions too.

Contruction worker: Drunks
Hair dressers: Gay
Doctors: Too busy
Factory Workers: High school diploma/no ambition
Engineers: Smart
Salesmen: ****y and confident and fun

Just thinking about people in those jobs and I must say those sterotypes are spot on. ;)


robinincarolina said:
Feminism has not hurt women in my opinion, we really don't have a choice, we have to survive as well and some of us not only want to survive, we want to thrive so whats so wrong with that? All we want is a man who is capable of being present with us. Physically and emotionally.

Women don't have to turn into me to survive. Has the feminist movement made women happier? No.
 
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robinincarolina said:
A smart emotionally healthy woman would run for the hills when she met you.

Wake me up when one of these exist anymore.

I'll take my foreign wife who can't speak english and who does whatever I say any day of the week over some BPD woman who posts on a mens seduction forum trying to lecture me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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