"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you know any chick personally that's slept with a celebrity?

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Do you know any chick personally that's slept with a Celebrity?

Or have you dated one who said she did? Would that turn you off as in relegated to plate status only or would you not care as you couldn't blame her because any chick would jump at the chance.

Me personally I'd say nothing and keep it cool but drop her as I'd know a chick like that if given another opportunity would do it again.

Myself no celebrity impresses me enough let alone think they're automatically better than a non celebrity chick.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't know a chick who has or claims she has. Celebrity or not, it would turn me off anyways if a woman started talking about who she has slept with. I have no interest in knowing it and find it very unattractive, it certainly would not serve to impress me.
 

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I used to date a girl who has slept with a two NBA players, which was interesting to hear. One of her friends has been flown across the world to have flings with certain celebrities, I know this has happened a few times. A girl I happened to make out with last weekend used to date someone from a reality show over here, I actually knew who he was.

One of my friends(model) only slept with one guy in 2016 and he was a minor celebrity over here in the UK and this year she's only slept with one guy and he's a Tommy Hilfiger model, go figure. Funnily enough, I know another girl, completely different circles, who slept with that same minor celebrity.

Some girls like banging dudes with some status, I won't begrudge them for it.
 

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A girl I dated also dated a NHL star before me. Made no difference to me. I'm pretty secure with myself.

I've hung out with a several NFL household names. They are just regular guys that won the lottery and get to do what they love. No need to pedestalize these people.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A girl I dated also dated a NHL star before me. .
Same here. One of my ex was with a Pittsburgh Penguin for several years prior to me.
 

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I dated an Armenian girl who claimed she dated NBA players. I think she was lying, but if she wasn't she was surely pumped and dumped. Her attitude toward men was toxic.
 

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I know a few. One of my friends cousins dated a NY Knick. Another chick I know mom had been a groupie/ ONS for one of the Hall and Oates singers, another chick I know dated some no name celebrity that was "suits" forgot the dudes full name, another chick I knew friend had gotten pump and dumped by the rapper RedMan. Many years ago I'd worked at a hotel that was nice but hidden. Used to have hockey players and golfers stay at it during games / tournaments I worked as hotel operator and damn these chicks would call and stalk these dudes. One chick literally just started talking to me out of nowhere as I was going to check first if this dude wanted to take the call and she starts going on about how she's "dating" this guy and the whole team said she's a slut. I'm thinking uhm ok same thing I'd be thinking. Another chick I'd been talking to seeing a bit wound up immediately after (around myspace time) putting up a picture of her and Pauly Shore with the caption "I made out with Pauly Shore!" Chick was a nutjob and a scientologist...Nuff said.
 

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Do you know any chick personally that's slept with a Celebrity?

Or have you dated one who said she did? Would that turn you off as in relegated to plate status only or would you not care as you couldn't blame her because any chick would jump at the chance.

Me personally I'd say nothing and keep it cool but drop her as I'd know a chick like that if given another opportunity would do it again.

Myself no celebrity impresses me enough let alone think they're automatically better than a non celebrity chick.
NN, I had dated quite a few models that have gone on "dates" with A-List celebrities. I'm not impressed. Quite a turn off for me. And god forbid, she tried to size me up against (as a result), she got the boot, q-u-i-c-k-l-y.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NN, I had dated quite a few models that have gone on "dates" with A-List celebrities. I'm not impressed. Quite a turn off for me. And god forbid, she tried to size me up against (as a result), she got the boot, q-u-i-c-k-l-y.
I think this might be the first time we actually agree on something. There must be a shift in the universe.

I'm not surprised that chicks go crazy for celebs. Myself? They don't impress me. Yeah it's cool and all but they ain't doing anything for me.

Saw Ben Affleck in NYC and many celebs for I think it was Superman vs Batman walking with my friend down the block somewhere. That dude is pretty tall. Looked like 6'5. He got out of one of those black trucks, waving, and there was a friggin CROWD I mean the block going NUTS for that dude. Screaming like they saw Jesus.
 

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I think this might be the first time we actually agree on something. There must be a shift in the universe.

I'm not surprised that chicks go crazy for celebs. Myself? They don't impress me. Yeah it's cool and all but they ain't doing anything for me.

Saw Ben Affleck in NYC and many celebs for I think it was Superman vs Batman walking with my friend down the block somewhere. That dude is pretty tall. Looked like 6'5. He got out of one of those black trucks, waving, and there was a friggin CROWD I mean the block going NUTS for that dude. Screaming like they saw Jesus.
I actually dumped chicks before who idolized celebs. If she elevates another above me (and herself), she gets the boot.
 

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I used to date a chick who had friends that tried to set her up with a retired NFL QB from the 70s...said he could barely walk and was always in pain...was not interested at all...
 

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I actually dumped chicks before who idolized celebs. If she elevates another above me (and herself), she gets the boot.
Ah shyt. Yep. Sorry, but if some chick is into that celebutard worship I'm thinking this chick is a pea brained nitwit.

Few dudes I know know a lot of celebrities and huge names in the music industry. Knew a few from the past. Some are cool. Others complete clowns.
 

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I used to date a chick who had friends that tried to set her up with a retired NFL QB from the 70s...said he could barely walk and was always in pain...was not interested at all...
"talked" to (if you want to call it that) some chick from OLD a while back who was literally telling me she met some NY Giant and was going to "date" him, met him on POF?! I literally answered the phone and this chick talked a mile a minute as in there was no breath taken. Chick HAD to be on something. I about got my first words out and she kept going non stop like the sentences all connected. I no joke put the phone down as I was watching a boxing match, picked up the phone a few minutes later and she was still non stop talking. I said: I gotta go. Hung up, continued watching the match and never heard from her again. Saw her on POF active a week later. lmao
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NN, I had dated quite a few models that have gone on "dates" with A-List celebrities. I'm not impressed. Quite a turn off for me. And god forbid, she tried to size me up against (as a result), she got the boot, q-u-i-c-k-l-y.
I agree with that, it's a weird situation because it's always the girl bringing it up our of no where or shoe horning it into the conversation. I remember I was out eating with her and she randomly asked if I'd fcked anyone famous, I said no and she decided to spill all. I wasn't impressed, I kept eating my food and realised that was the moment that nothing serious was ever going to happen with that girl. Attention wh*re.

As you mention with models, they go on "dates" with these guys and get dropped pretty quickly because the guys kinda know what's up. The girl's want the story and get to brag to their friends. What they don't realise is that no one really cares.
 

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Anytime a girl get pumped and dumped from someone of high value or high score, she starts to believe that she is in the same league of those men.

She doesnt realize that her level is way below and that she got used not any different than that afc she hired as driver and cellphone fixer.
 

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I know a girl that got invited to hang out with a few NFL football players one night. They all took their turn with her. She was quite proud of it and never got a dime for it. Now had those guys been average joe's you bet she would have expected some sort of gain and she would not have bragged about it. This chic thinks she elevated herself and is oblivious to the fact that she was just a novelty for the night. lol.
 

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I know a girl that got invited to hang out with a few NFL football players one night. They all took their turn with her. She was quite proud of it and never got a dime for it. Now had those guys been average joe's you bet she would have expected some sort of gain and she would not have bragged about it. This chic thinks she elevated herself and is oblivious to the fact that she was just a novelty for the night. lol.
Maybe she just wanted to have sex with good looking, in shape athletes and couldn't decide which one to go with ?
 

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I dated a woman once....Her childhood sweetheart was in a band but she dumped him for a guy who became her husband. The husband subsequently ****ed her over, cheated on her multiple times. He didn't hide it either and often flaunted it in front of her.
The childhood sweetheart went on to become a multi millionaire with a very famous band (I'm not saying who).
As a result of this trauma, no man will ever be good enough, and sad to say she is traumatized and had NPD/BPD tendencies.
She is now in her 50's and goes through men like a real attention *****. Always needs to be the centre of attention, continuously seeking validation from men and can't commit to anything or anyone.
I once went into a record store with her and she got one of the bands CD's, shoved it in my face and said I've ****ed that guy.
At which point I dumped her on the spot for being disrespectful.
Complete mess and she doesn't get it...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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