do you keep spinning plates when you find a chick you like?

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If you're in a relationship with her, no. If you're just talking and nothing has escalated, then yes.
 

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Yes. If you like a woman and want to develop the relationship, it's not fvcking up to you bro' it's up to her. The fastest way to get her to stop seeing you is to become a needy @ss clingy b!itch. The only way I know how to prevent this is to have options with women.

Too many guys lock onto a girl, their frame goes out the window, then end up crying when you chase her off. She has to come to you... she has to bring up the "what are we doing" speech. Remember that scene in the movie "Big", that's pretty much how it happens. And the funny thing is how Tom Hank's character reacts to it is EXACTLY how any man should when it comes up... even though his charater was clueless to what is going on (since he has the mind of a child).

Until this happens, you have to treat her just like any other girl you happen to be seeing... regardless on how you feel.
 

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That's exactly when you should be spinning plates. And once you guys are comitted, you just stop pounding your plates.
 
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Yes. The woman im with is very appreciative of me (she's not technically my gf but we kinda act like it). However I just fvcked a different girl today. You see I had horrible oneitis one time and it bit me in the ass. Since then I realized I need to play the field more.
 

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Pedal to the meal at all times with plates. They come and go so quickly it's like turnover. So always be picking them up. Oftentimes I lose interest; occasionally they pull the plug. I can use the out-of-town-this-weekend excuse only so many times.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Yes. The woman im with is very appreciative of me (she's not technically my gf but we kinda act like it). However I just fvcked a different girl today. You see I had horrible oneitis one time and it bit me in the ass. Since then I realized I need to play the field more.
Why are you acting with her? Does it have anything to do with fear of failing? I can relate...

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Keep the focus on YOU. So what if you lose the girl? Another girl will quickly take her place. If you WAIT on the first girl, you will be worse off when you meet that second girl. FAIL NOW.
Go caveman on her one night and fvuck her. Otherwise you're gonna be orbiting.

You can fvuck BOTH of them in the same day and be certified DJ.
 

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Zapp Brannigan said:
If you're in a relationship with her, no. If you're just talking and nothing has escalated, then yes.

Kinda sounds lameish...no offense. Why? Because even if you are in love. We know better. We know she will succumb to greatness if however short lived it is.
 

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Zapp Brannigan said:
If you're in a relationship with her, no. If you're just talking and nothing has escalated, then yes.
Society's rules. Manufactured, dogmatic, archaic, misandry, offensive, controlling.

Will not tolerate being told who and when I can sleep with. I want to fvuck who I want, whenever I feel like it.
 
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RangerMIke said:
Yes. If you like a woman and want to develop the relationship, it's not fvcking up to you bro' it's up to her. The fastest way to get her to stop seeing you is to become a needy @ss clingy b!itch. The only way I know how to prevent this is to have options with women.

Too many guys lock onto a girl, their frame goes out the window, then end up crying when you chase her off. She has to come to you... she has to bring up the "what are we doing" speech.

...you have to treat her just like any other girl you happen to be seeing... regardless on how you feel.
That's the solid DJ mindset.

It's HER responsibility to propose exclusivity.

Keep at it. The best plates are made of glass, but glass plates often come at a high price, and they break easy. Enjoy them but know in the back of your mind that the party will have to come to an end.

When I'm doing it right, I either get bored of them and move on, or, they get too emotionally vested and start to distance themselves, because they'd rather not know.

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That's a conversation that she's gotta bring up, and she's gonna have to earn it.
 

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I do. But it's different.

Always keep a girl or two in the bullpen, warming up and ready but not on the field in the game.

It's not that hard.
Yep. I maintain a small stable of women, constantly refreshing, deleting, adding. A few, though, I've somehow stayed in contact with, one for over 10 years, and she's almost always my best sexual performer.
 

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YES

Because there is no GOOD reason not to. My values and beliefs are in line with the idea that variety is the spice of life. So I live accordingly.

Even when I meet a girl I like more than usual.. I still flirt with others and continue meeting and f*cking others because this is the lifestyle I want to live and its not negotiable.

With spinning plates, the benefits outweigh the downsides (for me). And with commitment, the downside outweighs the benefit (for me). I love that a lot of women will simply try harder to get my attention and/or work harder to be with me BECAUSE they have competition. I also love that women will be on their best behavior when they see I have other women interested. This is how I like it.

When you commit to ONE woman you put her on a pedestal. Once you put ONE woman on a pedestal and start living according to HER rules.. you become her b!tch and her slave. This is called beta submission and its pathetic.
 

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Poon King said:
YES

Because there is no GOOD reason not to. My values and beliefs are in line with the idea that variety is the spice of life. So I live accordingly.

Even when I meet a girl I like more than usual.. I still flirt with others and continue meeting and f*cking others because this is the lifestyle I want to live and its not negotiable.

With spinning plates, the benefits outweigh the downsides (for me). And with commitment, the downside outweighs the benefit (for me). I love that a lot of women will simply try harder to get my attention and/or work harder to be with me BECAUSE they have competition. I also love that women will be on their best behavior when they see I have other women interested. This is how I like it.

When you commit to ONE woman you put her on a pedestal. Once you put ONE woman on a pedestal and start living according to HER rules.. you become her b!tch and her slave. This is called beta submission and its pathetic.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

More beta KJ nonsense. Beta submission is a term for guys like you who feel completely powerless to women fearing you'll be dominated by them in relationships. You're putting women on a pedestal believing they have more power over you. That's an awful fearful weak beta mindset to have. Bascially you're saying you're a weak helpless beta who will be dominated by a woman forced to follow her rules. Alpha men know how to lead women in relationships and women follow their rules. Betas like you are weak and sumbit any power you have to the "more powerful" woman. That's as pathetic as you can get. Quit fearing women and relationships believing they're more powerful than you putting them on a high pedestal.
 

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Espi,

Do you think there is no girl out there who could change you or convince you to be exclusive/married?
 
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MAYALL said:
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

More beta KJ nonsense. Beta submission is a term for guys like you who feel completely powerless to women fearing you'll be dominated by them in relationships. You're putting women on a pedestal believing they have more power over you. That's an awful fearful weak beta mindset to have. Bascially you're saying you're a weak helpless beta who will be dominated by a woman forced to follow her rules. Alpha men know how to lead women in relationships and women follow their rules. Betas like you are weak and sumbit any power you have to the "more powerful" woman. That's as pathetic as you can get. Quit fearing women and relationships believing they're more powerful than you putting them on a high pedestal.
WRONG.

But your beta anger proves your beta status. Only a pathetic beta slave would have a problem with anything I say.

Cry more b!tch.
 

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Here's a mind-f--k for you to ponder:

Why does one continue to spin plates if he has started dating a woman that he thinks might be "the one" or "relationship material?"

Simple answer, right? It's so that he won't become so needy and focused on this one chick that he starts doing all the WRONG things to lower her interest and scare her away. Or, as this board would say, "so you won't get one-i-tis."

Ah, but here's the rub: what if, at the time of meeting said woman, you don't have any other plates you're currently spinning? And what if, as you're dating her, you still do not manage to find other plates to hook up with? How does a guy then prevent himself from becoming that needy, insecure guy who develops the dreaded one-i-tis?

The answer to that is also simple in theory, but harder in execution: he has to be a guy that is ALREADY confident in himself, and feels in his gut like he could get another woman in his life in no time flat, were this current situation not to work out to his liking.

So then: how does one get to the point where he can date a girl, regardless of if he has other plates lined up or not, and still manage to not do the things that will make her LOSE interest?

Well... I have a whole site dedicated to that (see signature)... but one of the ways is to start believing that you DO, in fact, have worth. If you believe you have worth, it will exude from within to the outside, and it's an energy others around you can pick up. If you feel you have worth, you are more confident; if you are more confident, you are more of a positive person; if you're more of a positive person, you are someone that others - especially women - will not only want in their lives, but would not want to risk giving up. YOU become the prize, not them - and YOU being the prize it what allows you to date however many girls you want at any given time, without fear of consequence.
 

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Poon King said:
WRONG.

But your beta anger proves your beta status. Only a pathetic beta slave would have a problem with anything I say.

Cry more b!tch.

Frankly speaking, you should be ashamed of yourself for writing such a negative weak minded post. You're giving away all of your power to women being a weak minded beta right out of the gate. Never in my life have I read such nonsense and weak minded garbage before. Every man should have a problem with what you say. Men are superior to women who are the weaker sex. Your KJ nonsense makes the weaker woman more powerful than men with the beta fear you have.

Your beta fear and anger is prevalent in all the posts I've read from you. You fear women being more poweful than you in relatonships following their rules. That makes you angry and is visible in your posts. Men lead by example and the woman follows. Not the KJ nonsense you're trying to spew with men following the "more powerful" woman. Alpha men will never be reduced to a beta in a relationship. If he is, then he was never was an alpha to begin with. I strongly suggest you work on your yourself to eradicate your weak beta mindset before you post any further KJ advice. It makes you look very inept. Crying about pedestalizing women making them more powerful than you, and living according to their rules will never make you an alpha male. Work on that mindset. Thanks again for the laugh dude. You're funny as hell with your KJ posts. :crackup:
 

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Poon King said:
Only a pathetic beta slave would have a problem with anything I say.
Seriously?

"A successful seducer is always prospecting" - Louis/Copeland.

Why? Because otherwise you put all your eggs in one basket. What if your girl flakes?

Plus, you need to remain pertinent. I took my 22 year old a couple weeks back. First we ran into a rude waitress who she said was giving me a dirty look behind my back. Then a bartender around age 25 called me "sir" (which is what many of them do so secretly let you know they think you are too old). Observing that these bugged me, my gf said "Are you feeling undesirable?" Then an hour later I had a girl who was hotter than her (age 26) try to pick me up in front of her. As the other girl she was leaving she said "Follow me" but I just waved goodbye. Later that night my gf was all over me and said "You're SO sexy!". See how it works? Your gf will NOT be the one to give you confidence. She will NOT be the one to let you how attractive you are to other women. Other women have to do that. If your woman doesn't think she could lose you, she will lose interest in a hurry.
 

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jurry said:
Espi,

Do you think there is no girl out there who could change you or convince you to be exclusive/married?
I can be walking down the street and see a dozen women who in my mind not only look fine as hell but I'll start fantasizing about how great it would be to be married or exclusive with her.

I just resist the urge to adapt to customs and mores. Because those customs and mores in my opinion are designed to.contain and conform and that is not happening with me.

I don't own or acknowledge them or appreciate society's values when it comes to marraige . I'm sure that there is woman out there who I could choose to be with, but really at this point I just won't be limit or confine myself in any way... this pertains to women, jobs, cars, workout routines,--just about anything in my life I don't want to be committed or exclusive with. I like to move from girl to girl. I like the spontaneity of not knowing who I'm going to be with in one year let alone five years. That is what makes life most adventurous and fulfilling for me personally.
 
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