Why are you acting with her? Does it have anything to do with fear of failing? I can relate...skinnyguy said:Yes. The woman im with is very appreciative of me (she's not technically my gf but we kinda act like it). However I just fvcked a different girl today. You see I had horrible oneitis one time and it bit me in the ass. Since then I realized I need to play the field more.
Go caveman on her one night and fvuck her. Otherwise you're gonna be orbiting.Pook said:Keep the focus on YOU. So what if you lose the girl? Another girl will quickly take her place. If you WAIT on the first girl, you will be worse off when you meet that second girl. FAIL NOW.
Zapp Brannigan said:If you're in a relationship with her, no. If you're just talking and nothing has escalated, then yes.
Society's rules. Manufactured, dogmatic, archaic, misandry, offensive, controlling.Zapp Brannigan said:If you're in a relationship with her, no. If you're just talking and nothing has escalated, then yes.
That's the solid DJ mindset.RangerMIke said:Yes. If you like a woman and want to develop the relationship, it's not fvcking up to you bro' it's up to her. The fastest way to get her to stop seeing you is to become a needy @ss clingy b!itch. The only way I know how to prevent this is to have options with women.
Too many guys lock onto a girl, their frame goes out the window, then end up crying when you chase her off. She has to come to you... she has to bring up the "what are we doing" speech.
...you have to treat her just like any other girl you happen to be seeing... regardless on how you feel.
That's a conversation that she's gotta bring up, and she's gonna have to earn it.Suspens said:com[m]itted
Yep. I maintain a small stable of women, constantly refreshing, deleting, adding. A few, though, I've somehow stayed in contact with, one for over 10 years, and she's almost always my best sexual performer.Tictac said:I do. But it's different.
Always keep a girl or two in the bullpen, warming up and ready but not on the field in the game.
It's not that hard.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Poon King said:YES
Because there is no GOOD reason not to. My values and beliefs are in line with the idea that variety is the spice of life. So I live accordingly.
Even when I meet a girl I like more than usual.. I still flirt with others and continue meeting and f*cking others because this is the lifestyle I want to live and its not negotiable.
With spinning plates, the benefits outweigh the downsides (for me). And with commitment, the downside outweighs the benefit (for me). I love that a lot of women will simply try harder to get my attention and/or work harder to be with me BECAUSE they have competition. I also love that women will be on their best behavior when they see I have other women interested. This is how I like it.
When you commit to ONE woman you put her on a pedestal. Once you put ONE woman on a pedestal and start living according to HER rules.. you become her b!tch and her slave. This is called beta submission and its pathetic.
WRONG.MAYALL said::crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
More beta KJ nonsense. Beta submission is a term for guys like you who feel completely powerless to women fearing you'll be dominated by them in relationships. You're putting women on a pedestal believing they have more power over you. That's an awful fearful weak beta mindset to have. Bascially you're saying you're a weak helpless beta who will be dominated by a woman forced to follow her rules. Alpha men know how to lead women in relationships and women follow their rules. Betas like you are weak and sumbit any power you have to the "more powerful" woman. That's as pathetic as you can get. Quit fearing women and relationships believing they're more powerful than you putting them on a high pedestal.
Poon King said:WRONG.
But your beta anger proves your beta status. Only a pathetic beta slave would have a problem with anything I say.
Cry more b!tch.
Seriously?Poon King said:Only a pathetic beta slave would have a problem with anything I say.
I can be walking down the street and see a dozen women who in my mind not only look fine as hell but I'll start fantasizing about how great it would be to be married or exclusive with her.jurry said:Espi,
Do you think there is no girl out there who could change you or convince you to be exclusive/married?