Do you keep “trophies” from the women you’ve been with?

[Clockwerk50]

I’m talking pictures, videos, voice notes, clothes, gifts… little reminders that stay with you after it’s over.

Or are you the type of guy who deletes everything and moves on clean?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Nah, just memories.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Not since Uncle Sam gave in to his more draconian urges once again, outlawed scalping one's previous lays

 

[CornbreadFed]

No, I’m not in college anymore lol. I still have pictures, but that’s just moreso I’m too lazy to delete them lol.

 

[characternote]

i've got some video footage, but only of some of the very hottest ones. I pulled a 17 year old a while back who was half my age and VERY hot and I knew it was basically a lottery win, so I filmed a fair few bits and pieces of us in bed. But generally, no

 

[Divorced w 3]

I delete and move clean including socials and other stuff that would obstruct my ability to detach.

 

[frenchflow]

Worked hard to get results , so I often do. Just to remind myself of how far I have come. And brag to my mentor a bit lol.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Confident men can let that stuff go, unconfident people need to hold onto those things

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Keep.

 

[Beyond It]

No. Nor do I kiss and tell. Ever.

 

[BadBoy89]

Damn straight I do, Have to show other women my ex was hot.

 

[tksniper]

I still have a love letter some girl wrote to me when I was a 14 year old freshman. She thought I was the most popular guy in school named Kevin. But it turns out I just looked like him lol. Back in the 90s girls used to be boy crazy and actually went out of their way at to pursue guys lol.

I also have another letter from a woman I told I had cancer just to get her to break up with me. This was like back in 2009. She was so needy I had to go the cancer route. Saw her on Facebook 10 years later and thought I’d send her a message and she replied with “I’m glad you survived cancer” with a sarcastic emoji. Lmao.

 

[The Duke]

Damn straight I do, Have to show other women my ex was hot.

You show them these pics of former girlfriends? Or just let them stumble upon them?

 

[BadBoy89]

You show them these pics of former girlfriends? Or just let them stumble upon them?

Put all the good pics of the ex and I together on the iPhone and show them.

You have to throw it in their face.

 

[Solomon]

I delete and move clean including socials and other stuff that would obstruct my ability to detach.

This, I even block if I feel like it, not to be petty but sometimes if you're at a random bar on a Thursday night, you do not want to lose control and text some misbehave bop

 

[The Duke]

I know it gives you social proof and you score points if the new girl thinks your ex-girl was hot. They all want a man that is desired. I've never been one to "throw it in their face". They are all investigators. If she is into you, she will figure out what your exes looked like.

How do they respond when you bring up your ex? Does it bring out their inesecurities?

 

[CornbreadFed]

I know it gives you social proof and you score points if the new girl thinks your ex-girl was hot. They all want a man that is desired. I've never been one to "throw it in their face". They are all investigators. If she is into you, she will figure out what your exes looked like.

"Any Man who must say I am the King is no true king"