Do you hit on UGs?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Jariel

Master Don Juan

Jan 1, 2005

My thoughts go something like this:

Hot woman with great personality = potential LTR material.
Hot woman with average to bad personality = possible fling.
Ugly woman with great personality = possible friend.
Ugly woman with average to bad personality = nothing.

Some of my closest friends are ugly women/women I'm not attracted to. They're nice people, good fun, hold good conversations and very dependable, and that's everything I want in a friend so I don't care about their looks.