"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you have to quit your 9 to 5 in order to get a chance at bartending?

ThePlayedList

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I really want to give it a go and am more than willing to do it if makes working 80+ hours a week no sleep, ideally at a nightclub or party bar kind of place. The thing is I really really love my 9 to 5 as well and in about 5 years, it is going to lend me over 6 figures in salary but the thing is, I have always wanted to bartend.

In order to do it, will I have to quit my career or is there a way I can do that and bartend?

Are bars willing to accomodate that kind of a schedule?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Roober

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You don't want to be that 30-40 year old bartender that gave up on his career. What do you want? The social interaction? The additional money? The nightlife?

I am sure you can find what you want in a different activity
 

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You don't want to be that 30-40 year old bartender that gave up on his career. What do you want? The social interaction? The additional money? The nightlife?

I am sure you can find what you want in a different activity
It can always be a part time job 10-20 hrs...
 

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Pretty much, but you'll get a lot more women in your life.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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