"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you have to quit your 9 to 5 in order to get a chance at bartending?

ThePlayedList

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I really want to give it a go and am more than willing to do it if makes working 80+ hours a week no sleep, ideally at a nightclub or party bar kind of place. The thing is I really really love my 9 to 5 as well and in about 5 years, it is going to lend me over 6 figures in salary but the thing is, I have always wanted to bartend.

In order to do it, will I have to quit my career or is there a way I can do that and bartend?

Are bars willing to accomodate that kind of a schedule?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Roober

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You don't want to be that 30-40 year old bartender that gave up on his career. What do you want? The social interaction? The additional money? The nightlife?

I am sure you can find what you want in a different activity
 

mrgoodstuff

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You don't want to be that 30-40 year old bartender that gave up on his career. What do you want? The social interaction? The additional money? The nightlife?

I am sure you can find what you want in a different activity
It can always be a part time job 10-20 hrs...
 

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Pretty much, but you'll get a lot more women in your life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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