spesmilitis
Master Don Juan
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Anyone know? If so, all you have to do is indicate it when you reregister to vote, right?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ValleyDJing said:pompous dousche bag .
You just replied to yourself ???ValleyDJing said:Coming from the biggest one I know! Hows that for irony kids?!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Falcon said:You just replied to yourself ???
Either you don't keep up with current events or you're bush supporter in denial. It is still seems unlikely at this point in time but he has been surging as of lately.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Ron Paul? :crackup: You won't have to worry about closed or open primaries if you're going to vote for Ron Paul. It'll be the same result either way: he won't get the nomination.
LOLDeus ex Pianoforte said:The guy's an Osama bin Laden sympathizer, dude. He's a joke candidate.
I don't trust stangers from internet, but I do believe you value your sosuave honor. How about a signature wager?Deus ex Pianoforte said:You have PayPal? Care to place a small wager on this?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Like I said, I won't take bets from stangers on net. Let me know if you like the sig idea.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Laugh all you want, he's the one that was defending the leader of Al-Qaeda. I personally don't find that all that amusing, but whatever blows your hair back...
Nah. Trust doesn't enter the equation because you have nothing to lose if I don't pay up (which I would gladly do). How about $100? If he gets the nomination, you get $100. If he gets the presidency, I'll fork over another $200. If he doesn't get the nomination, you only have to pay up an even $100.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Do explain. Or are you just using the standard republican/Fox News tactic of attacking someone who doesn't suck Bush's d1ck by taking something he said completely out of context and desperately focusing entirely on that?Deus ex Pianoforte said:The guy's an Osama bin Laden sympathizer, dude. He's a joke candidate.
No better than Fox News telling the idiotic masses to vote neocon for reasons the idiotic masses have no clue about. IF U VOTE DEMOCRAT THE TERRORISTS AR GUNNA GIT YOO. WMDS! FAIR AND BALANCED!Ron Paul's supporters send out mass facebook msgs telling kids to vote for Ron Paul in online polls.