"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DO you have high standards for quailty girls you want?

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I find this is a huge problem for me.

I really only want to have sex with attractive girls. Its like I have this OCD that if the girl is not attractive her vagina will be horrible and I just get disgusted by:

Fat
bad skin
ugly face


etc....I really need girl to be very perfect to desire sex.

However,

I would let 3+ to give me a handjob etc...

I would let 5+ or even fat girl with pretty face etc to give me head.


I would not desire to kiss any girl unless she has an attractive face.



Sure, this makes my sex life limited but its just the way I am.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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oneboy21

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If you have higher standards that's fine
But please don't discriminate them. All fat/ Ugly chicks have good looking friends viceversa. So just be normal with them, If you are choosing one for sexual preference you can use your own techniques
 

AlexDP

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It's not that you don't get laid because you have high standards. It's because you have nothing to offer and ask so much.
 

rum

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**** that, I've only gone after girls who are either thin or toned. Nothing else is even worth an ounce of my energy. Disgusting fatties (or "curvy" if you will) if that sort of thing floats your boat, be my guest. But what's the challenge?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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scammbone

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oneboy21 said:
If you have higher standards that's fine
But please don't discriminate them. All fat/ Ugly chicks have good looking friends viceversa. So just be normal with them, If you are choosing one for sexual preference you can use your own techniques
Fat, and ugly girls usually do have hot friends.

I have a fat female friend who I only kick it with (yea she's fun to hang out with), she has a bunch of gorgeous friends. And often I'm the only guy hanging out with them and I love the attention. And have already enlisted one of her friends as a fvck buddy.

I have another female friend that is not necessarily cute. But she has a killer body and alot of so-so friends. I've hooked up with a couple of them, so that has also worked to my benefit.

So my point is: They all have their purpose, it's up to you to identify and exploit all opportunities.
 

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recentlt i've stepped up my standards to the point where if a woman doesn't make me say wow or damn then I won't talk to her. I guess it's mostly because I open to relationships now and I refuse to have anything less than a beautiful girlfriend


I used to holler at chicks who were somewhat chunky but still bangable but i got tired of feeling bad after I did the deed with them.

So now i only holler at 7's and up so to speak

nothing fat or ugly is ever touching my d1ck again. not even to give me head
 
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