"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DO you have high standards for quailty girls you want?

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I find this is a huge problem for me.

I really only want to have sex with attractive girls. Its like I have this OCD that if the girl is not attractive her vagina will be horrible and I just get disgusted by:

Fat
bad skin
ugly face


etc....I really need girl to be very perfect to desire sex.

However,

I would let 3+ to give me a handjob etc...

I would let 5+ or even fat girl with pretty face etc to give me head.


I would not desire to kiss any girl unless she has an attractive face.



Sure, this makes my sex life limited but its just the way I am.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oneboy21

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If you have higher standards that's fine
But please don't discriminate them. All fat/ Ugly chicks have good looking friends viceversa. So just be normal with them, If you are choosing one for sexual preference you can use your own techniques
 

AlexDP

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It's not that you don't get laid because you have high standards. It's because you have nothing to offer and ask so much.
 

rum

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**** that, I've only gone after girls who are either thin or toned. Nothing else is even worth an ounce of my energy. Disgusting fatties (or "curvy" if you will) if that sort of thing floats your boat, be my guest. But what's the challenge?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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scammbone

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oneboy21 said:
If you have higher standards that's fine
But please don't discriminate them. All fat/ Ugly chicks have good looking friends viceversa. So just be normal with them, If you are choosing one for sexual preference you can use your own techniques
Fat, and ugly girls usually do have hot friends.

I have a fat female friend who I only kick it with (yea she's fun to hang out with), she has a bunch of gorgeous friends. And often I'm the only guy hanging out with them and I love the attention. And have already enlisted one of her friends as a fvck buddy.

I have another female friend that is not necessarily cute. But she has a killer body and alot of so-so friends. I've hooked up with a couple of them, so that has also worked to my benefit.

So my point is: They all have their purpose, it's up to you to identify and exploit all opportunities.
 

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recentlt i've stepped up my standards to the point where if a woman doesn't make me say wow or damn then I won't talk to her. I guess it's mostly because I open to relationships now and I refuse to have anything less than a beautiful girlfriend


I used to holler at chicks who were somewhat chunky but still bangable but i got tired of feeling bad after I did the deed with them.

So now i only holler at 7's and up so to speak

nothing fat or ugly is ever touching my d1ck again. not even to give me head
 
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