Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Mitch_Mustain

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Have you not had sex with a woman at all and thought about the possiblity of being a queer?

Have you not been laid in such a long time that you wonder?

Do you think you're turning into a homo?

Does your brother constantly state that you dress like a butt lover?

Well now YOU can tell if you are a homo by doing this:

After you get done whacking off to pictures of Crissy Moran or Paris Hilton, go wash your hands and then look at your palms, specifically your fingers, or better yet, your index and ring fingers. Normally and generally(this is not totally 100% accurate but its damn near close)males have an index and ring finger that are just about the same size BUT, the RING finger is slightly longer than the INDEX finger just slightly..if you're fingers are this way stop reading and go back to practicing your hand to gland combat tactics. On the other hand if you find that your INDEX finger is longer than your RING finger....You probably have homosexual tendencies and are gay and you will die of AIDS(disregard the last few words)..

On a serious note, its an interesting thing I read about today on a site about finding sexual tendencies and other behavioral traits in us through the observation of our fingers,,its all sort of related to palmistry,.....so overall take it with a grain of salt.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diplomatic_lies

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You do realise only women and gay guys believe in palmistry, right?
 

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I could never find the male figure more attractive than the female figure....
 

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That's science at its best right there, let me tell you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bible Belt hit the nail on the head.

Generally speaking, the more testosterone a person has, the longer their ring finger is compared to their index finger.

Most women's index fingers will be longer than their ring fingers, but find a woman who has a stronger build and plays a lot of hard sports, and the chances are her ring finger is longer than her index.
 

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I think its all b.s.

I just tried it on my hands and realized that depending how you flex your hand, palm open, either one is the longest. And if you do it unflexed, well then your hand closes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anyway, the only finger useful to a man is the middle finger!
 

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that finding's from a while back. it was cited in a psychology mag from forever ago. old news.
 

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**** guys!! I'm a goner. My index finger is longer than my ring finger and I'm going to die of AIDS :(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mitch_Mustain said:
Have you not had sex with a woman at all and thought about the possiblity of being a queer?
Hell no. If you're homo... you were born that way. Many studies on this.

Have you not been laid in such a long time that you wonder?
I wonder lots of things.. but then I realize that its a waste of time so I get back to reality and work my ass of at work, in the gym and in my free time.

Do you think you're turning into a homo?
You cannot turn homo. You either are or you're not.

Does your brother constantly state that you dress like a butt lover?
You're brother wants your ass. He is gay.

Well now YOU can tell if you are a homo by doing this:

After you get done whacking off to pictures of Crissy Moran or Paris Hilton, go wash your hands and then look at your palms, specifically your fingers, or better yet, your index and ring fingers. Normally and generally(this is not totally 100% accurate but its damn near close)males have an index and ring finger that are just about the same size BUT, the RING finger is slightly longer than the INDEX finger just slightly..if you're fingers are this way stop reading and go back to practicing your hand to gland combat tactics. On the other hand if you find that your INDEX finger is longer than your RING finger....You probably have homosexual tendencies and are gay and you will die of AIDS(disregard the last few words)..

On a serious note, its an interesting thing I read about today on a site about finding sexual tendencies and other behavioral traits in us through the observation of our fingers,,its all sort of related to palmistry,.....so overall take it with a grain of salt.
Palmistry is bull****.
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
Hell no. If you're homo... you were born that way. Many studies on this.

I disagree

I could choose to be with guys if i wanted to.

I don't want to. So I choose not to.

But I beleive some people are messed up and choose to.

Some are probably born gay.
 

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three12 said:
I disagree

I could choose to be with guys if i wanted to.

I don't want to. So I choose not to.

But I beleive some people are messed up and choose to.

Some are probably born gay.
Haha, you have to be kidding me. So you'll force yourself to get it up when you're with a guy just because you think you want to? You could physically have sex with a guy but deep down you aren't programmed to be that way. It still wouldn't make you gay though. You would be weird, but not gay.
 

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it aint like i'm going to do it..

for example though, if someone wanted to have anal sex with me, and the $$$$ were right, i'd let them.
 

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Gayness is somewhat of a choice.

I knew this one guy who turned gay at like 8 because he was fudge packed by his cousin or something, and he liked it so he turned gay. Now I'm not saying for guys to go out and have sex with each other just to see if they'd like it or not. Cause I mean that's like if someone told me to go hammer nails into my balls just to see if it would hurt. I'm not absolutely sure it would hurt, but there's a pretty good chance that it would.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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