"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you have a nickname for your GF?

The_Reaper

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I was thinking of calling mine brat. heh heh.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The_Reaper

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Nice... I assume you don't call her big tittie blonde to her face?
 

DarkLight

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I nickname every chick I'm with.

It's endearing, and they love it.

Also it creates another identity with them.
So now you can almost subliminally create another persona in her, when using this name. To her mind it acts like an anchor. So calling her "bubbles" (or whatever, lol) when she's horny, or sweet or whatever. Will anchor the 2 phenomena together as one reality.

But bottom line... I just like giving my girls little names out of love. Some cute sh!t thats parallel to their personality. Its fun, and lets them enjoy being a new little babydoll to you.
 

The_Reaper

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Bubbles, eh? Where did you come up with that one?
 

DarkLight

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Hahahahaa... pretty original ay!?
... its actually 1 of the NN's I have for my parent's dog.

I get a lil more personaly creative, when it comes to naming my other b!tches. ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Credos

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She said my name wrong the first time we met, i made it her nickname cause it sounded like a female :crazy:
 
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