"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you have a nickname for your GF?

The_Reaper

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I was thinking of calling mine brat. heh heh.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The_Reaper

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Nice... I assume you don't call her big tittie blonde to her face?
 

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I nickname every chick I'm with.

It's endearing, and they love it.

Also it creates another identity with them.
So now you can almost subliminally create another persona in her, when using this name. To her mind it acts like an anchor. So calling her "bubbles" (or whatever, lol) when she's horny, or sweet or whatever. Will anchor the 2 phenomena together as one reality.

But bottom line... I just like giving my girls little names out of love. Some cute sh!t thats parallel to their personality. Its fun, and lets them enjoy being a new little babydoll to you.
 

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Bubbles, eh? Where did you come up with that one?
 

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Hahahahaa... pretty original ay!?
... its actually 1 of the NN's I have for my parent's dog.

I get a lil more personaly creative, when it comes to naming my other b!tches. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She said my name wrong the first time we met, i made it her nickname cause it sounded like a female :crazy:
 
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