The_Reaper
Senior Don Juan
I was thinking of calling mine brat. heh heh.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Do you have a nickname for your GF?
- Thread starter The_Reaper
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The_Reaper
Senior Don Juan
Nice... I assume you don't call her big tittie blonde to her face?
I nickname every chick I'm with.
It's endearing, and they love it.
Also it creates another identity with them.
So now you can almost subliminally create another persona in her, when using this name. To her mind it acts like an anchor. So calling her "bubbles" (or whatever, lol) when she's horny, or sweet or whatever. Will anchor the 2 phenomena together as one reality.
But bottom line... I just like giving my girls little names out of love. Some cute sh!t thats parallel to their personality. Its fun, and lets them enjoy being a new little babydoll to you.
It's endearing, and they love it.
Also it creates another identity with them.
So now you can almost subliminally create another persona in her, when using this name. To her mind it acts like an anchor. So calling her "bubbles" (or whatever, lol) when she's horny, or sweet or whatever. Will anchor the 2 phenomena together as one reality.
But bottom line... I just like giving my girls little names out of love. Some cute sh!t thats parallel to their personality. Its fun, and lets them enjoy being a new little babydoll to you.
The_Reaper
Senior Don Juan
Bubbles, eh? Where did you come up with that one?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.