"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Do you have a girlfriend?"

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Climax

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Might not get the responce ur looking for...

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
"do you have a girlfriend?"
"yes, but i cheat on her all the time"
And what if she is the type of girl that will lose respect for u BECAUSE of the fact that you would cheat on your gf? .. I personaly wouldnt go with giving the impression that you cheat on your gf, rather stick to the "keep her guessing" technique with some C&F... but thats just me:rolleyes:


Laterz...
 

Luveno

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equitas,

Mind can say that because hes got the body of a statue. Women will submit to that and take whatever he says as the way it is. Heck, I bet they were hoping he'd say something like that!

That is why it is always a good thing to go to the gym and bulk up.

Of course, there is the occasion that MoM is being sarcastic here, and thats fine. I still think he could get away with it nonetheless.


For us non-huge guys, I'd say that for someone to say something like that you'd have to be very charismatic and powerful, and even then it would depend on the girl you're talking to.
 

MindOverMatter

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haha, it's not that guys. i've never once said that without getting a laugh in return, due to the fact the line is so despicable that no person would be honest enough to admit something like that. hence it has to be a joke.

and if you were dishonest enough to cheat on your girl, you wouldn't be honest enough to admit this since it would screw up your chances of laying this girl.

it's like when a person asks you what you do for a living, and you tell them you deal heroin to school children. even if it is true, no one's gonna believe you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Shweet.

:up:
 

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ABBOT NO MORE AFC

ABBOTT, she had the hotts for you...that's right!

She was interested in you and wanted to know if you were taken!

Why the hell did it weird you out! CAUSE YOU WERE BEING AFC!
 

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Do you have a girlfriend?

Me: "That all depends.... What exactly do you mean by girlfriend?"
 
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