"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"do you have a crush on (some girl) ?"

djbr

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What is the, let's say, "suave" answer to this question, asked by a friend of the girl in question, in these cases:

1) you do have the boners for the girl in question
2) you don't.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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anyone who uses the term 'crush' is either a) 15 yr old, or b) thinks you're an AFC b/c no DJ has 'crushes' on girls He's already taken care of it so crushes dont have time to develop
 

djbr

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Wiesman44 said:
anyone who uses the term 'crush' is either a) 15 yr old, or b) thinks you're an AFC b/c no DJ has 'crushes' on girls He's already taken care of it so crushes dont have time to develop
LOL.

I'm Brazilian! ...and too lazy to think of another term that translates what I was trying to ask. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"no baby, your the only one i dream about at night (w/ short one arm hug and sarcasam), infact, you ware puirty good last night."
 
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