"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"do you have a crush on (some girl) ?"

djbr

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What is the, let's say, "suave" answer to this question, asked by a friend of the girl in question, in these cases:

1) you do have the boners for the girl in question
2) you don't.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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anyone who uses the term 'crush' is either a) 15 yr old, or b) thinks you're an AFC b/c no DJ has 'crushes' on girls He's already taken care of it so crushes dont have time to develop
 

djbr

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Wiesman44 said:
anyone who uses the term 'crush' is either a) 15 yr old, or b) thinks you're an AFC b/c no DJ has 'crushes' on girls He's already taken care of it so crushes dont have time to develop
LOL.

I'm Brazilian! ...and too lazy to think of another term that translates what I was trying to ask. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"no baby, your the only one i dream about at night (w/ short one arm hug and sarcasam), infact, you ware puirty good last night."
 
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