"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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brenbaus

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I ususally say "I might, but Im not going to tell you"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Q-unit nailed it. It is all about sending mixed messages:
You SHOW her you might like her with your actions
But you don't ever tell her directly.... your words should keep her wondering

It is like with coc-ky funny: you always talk to her like you are the motherfuggin boss, with a lot of humor thrown in so you aren't just a jerk.... but with your actions you show her you're really a good guy.

If a girl asks me if I like her I would say: "not particularly, but there's always time for me to change my mind"

or you might dodge the question for fun and say: "yeah, you're a good friend" and drop the friend-bomb on her ass...powerful

or: "no, I only like nice girls"
or: "does it matter?" "you like me one way or the other anyway"

don't actually tell her you like her, that is almost never a good idea.... takes away challenge, mystery, anticipation, and many other things that cause her to be attracted to you.
 
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