"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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do you have a 6 pack?

six pack..you got 1?

  • Yes!

    Votes: 12 27.3%
  • Nope

    Votes: 32 72.7%

  • Total voters
    44

mr.uk

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since january ive been spending 20 minutes a day trying to get a six pack and ive had one for about a month now. im just wondering what proportion of men have them.
if the figure in the poll turns out low then its going to show that a six pack is one more thing that makes you stand out from the rest so therefore itd be worth the investment of pain for a few minutes a day.

also for the girls of the forum: do you really find a six pack THAT sexy?

as sexy as we like a decent pair or a curvy ass?!

heres an example..a guy who you rate as a 5 with shirt on then whips his shirt off and he has chiseled abs. what do you now rate him for physical attractiveness?

im trying to show here that all you guys should get a 6 pack cos ive got a feeling the girls are gonna say they love them...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WesCottII

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I got one.

It's better to have, than not to have, and my birds love running their hands over it.
 

Paper Man

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Yep. It's in the fridge.

In all seriousness, no, I don't have it.
 

The Bat

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I think you're going to find that lot of guys with a low body fat (skinny ecto's) who started weight lifting have a six pack rather than those who were overweight or heavy and started weight lifting. Six pack is nothing more than an aesthetic feature, something nice to have but it won't make or break the deal. At least, that's what I've found in my experience.

So, stop worrying about a six pack. Focus on building overall muscle mass and gaining strength with big lifts instead. Would you rather have a six pack that may/may not please the ladies OR impressive arms/chest/back that please the ladies almost all the time?

And remember, the focus is you, at the end. If you can bench 1.5 x bodyweight then who gives a crap whether or not you have a six pack?
 

Punisha

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they arent like all ripped out but yeah i got a visible 6pack
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Omen

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mr.uk said:
since january ive been spending 20 minutes a day trying to get a six pack and ive had one for about a month now.
This is where you are screwing up. You dont train a muscle group everyday, and I dont care if it is abs or not. You need to hit the health/fitness section, cause i'm afraid you have a lot to learn.

More than likely you are a little skinny, and it is nothing impressive. And the reason for this is because of your training. If you do them RIGHT, you shouldn't be able to do them the next day.
 

Mr.Positive

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Omen said:
This is where you are screwing up. You dont train a muscle group everyday, and I dont care if it is abs or not. You need to hit the health/fitness section, cause i'm afraid you have a lot to learn.

More than likely you are a little skinny, and it is nothing impressive. And the reason for this is because of your training. If you do them RIGHT, you shouldn't be able to do them the next day.
Definitely check out the health/fitness section, however you can train abs everyday. You don't NEED to, but you can. In fact, that's dedication right there. You can burn the sh!t out of your abs, and they'll be ready for more the next day.

To answer your question, no I don't have a six pack. You could say I've got a 4 pack. But..I don't train abs everyday though, I train them every day that I work out, which is 4-5 times a week.

The six pack is in the fridge.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rollo Tomassi

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I have a 4 pack, heheh,..
 

comic_relief

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I used to have a nice six pack, but with classes and some other physical ailments I have not been able to do anything. Once my arm heals up, I am planning on regaining it.

comic_relief
 

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Yeah, although, this bigmac that I am eating right now probably isn't helping.
 

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I have a keg, you guys need to step up and stop being wuss boys.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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War Against Betaism

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I used to have a nice six pack when I was younger (like 15) and then I went through a period where I didn't care about what my body looked like and started eating and drinking a lot of beer. Now I'm trying to get it back.
 

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i have a 4 pack.
u can kinda see the 6 if i REALLY flex and bend my stomach together, but i prob gained alotta fat over spring break lol
 

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Nope, but I'm trying to get one. I got too much fat on my stomach. What's the best way to get a 6-pack when you have a bit of a gut? The hand-held body fat analyzer says' I'm at 13% BF.
 

ready123

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I got a one pack and I love beer
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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