"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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do you have a 6 pack?

six pack..you got 1?

  • Yes!

    Votes: 12 27.3%
  • Nope

    Votes: 32 72.7%

  • Total voters
    44

mr.uk

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since january ive been spending 20 minutes a day trying to get a six pack and ive had one for about a month now. im just wondering what proportion of men have them.
if the figure in the poll turns out low then its going to show that a six pack is one more thing that makes you stand out from the rest so therefore itd be worth the investment of pain for a few minutes a day.

also for the girls of the forum: do you really find a six pack THAT sexy?

as sexy as we like a decent pair or a curvy ass?!

heres an example..a guy who you rate as a 5 with shirt on then whips his shirt off and he has chiseled abs. what do you now rate him for physical attractiveness?

im trying to show here that all you guys should get a 6 pack cos ive got a feeling the girls are gonna say they love them...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WesCottII

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I got one.

It's better to have, than not to have, and my birds love running their hands over it.
 

Paper Man

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Yep. It's in the fridge.

In all seriousness, no, I don't have it.
 

The Bat

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I think you're going to find that lot of guys with a low body fat (skinny ecto's) who started weight lifting have a six pack rather than those who were overweight or heavy and started weight lifting. Six pack is nothing more than an aesthetic feature, something nice to have but it won't make or break the deal. At least, that's what I've found in my experience.

So, stop worrying about a six pack. Focus on building overall muscle mass and gaining strength with big lifts instead. Would you rather have a six pack that may/may not please the ladies OR impressive arms/chest/back that please the ladies almost all the time?

And remember, the focus is you, at the end. If you can bench 1.5 x bodyweight then who gives a crap whether or not you have a six pack?
 

Punisha

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they arent like all ripped out but yeah i got a visible 6pack
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Omen

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mr.uk said:
since january ive been spending 20 minutes a day trying to get a six pack and ive had one for about a month now.
This is where you are screwing up. You dont train a muscle group everyday, and I dont care if it is abs or not. You need to hit the health/fitness section, cause i'm afraid you have a lot to learn.

More than likely you are a little skinny, and it is nothing impressive. And the reason for this is because of your training. If you do them RIGHT, you shouldn't be able to do them the next day.
 

Mr.Positive

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Omen said:
This is where you are screwing up. You dont train a muscle group everyday, and I dont care if it is abs or not. You need to hit the health/fitness section, cause i'm afraid you have a lot to learn.

More than likely you are a little skinny, and it is nothing impressive. And the reason for this is because of your training. If you do them RIGHT, you shouldn't be able to do them the next day.
Definitely check out the health/fitness section, however you can train abs everyday. You don't NEED to, but you can. In fact, that's dedication right there. You can burn the sh!t out of your abs, and they'll be ready for more the next day.

To answer your question, no I don't have a six pack. You could say I've got a 4 pack. But..I don't train abs everyday though, I train them every day that I work out, which is 4-5 times a week.

The six pack is in the fridge.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rollo Tomassi

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I have a 4 pack, heheh,..
 

comic_relief

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I used to have a nice six pack, but with classes and some other physical ailments I have not been able to do anything. Once my arm heals up, I am planning on regaining it.

comic_relief
 

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Yeah, although, this bigmac that I am eating right now probably isn't helping.
 

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I have a keg, you guys need to step up and stop being wuss boys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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War Against Betaism

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I used to have a nice six pack when I was younger (like 15) and then I went through a period where I didn't care about what my body looked like and started eating and drinking a lot of beer. Now I'm trying to get it back.
 

Crazy Asian

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i have a 4 pack.
u can kinda see the 6 if i REALLY flex and bend my stomach together, but i prob gained alotta fat over spring break lol
 

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Nope, but I'm trying to get one. I got too much fat on my stomach. What's the best way to get a 6-pack when you have a bit of a gut? The hand-held body fat analyzer says' I'm at 13% BF.
 

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I got a one pack and I love beer
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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