"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you happen to have problems while wearing condoms?

Who Dares Win

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I found out that sometime wearing a condom makes my erection weaker,sometimes even making hard to penetrate a pvssy, let alone an ass.

Im trying to find out if it could be some component on the condom to which I could have a reaction, if its the pressure around my c0ck or its a psychological factor.

When doing girls raw dog I go hard as rock and have no problem to enter, but with condoms if its not round1 where Im super horny, it could be problematic.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Married Buried

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I never wear condoms anymore except to make me last longer. I use those extended condoms that make your **** numb, and bang for an hour.
 

Greasy Pig

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Yep, had similar issues. It's definitely psychological.
Sometimes I could bang like a porn star with a condom on, and other times my wang would just refuse to cooperate.
The temptation will be to just rawdog the random slvts you pick up, but I caught the clap twice from doing that.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
Yep, had similar issues. It's definitely psychological.
Sometimes I could bang like a porn star with a condom on, and other times my wang would just refuse to cooperate.
The temptation will be to just rawdog the random slvts you pick up, but I caught the clap twice from doing that.

It depends how hot the female is you are banging. Once I was banging a girl I wasn't that attracted to and I went limp wearing a condom.

Don't bang girls you are not attracted to and you won't go limp.
 

Mike32ct

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Yeah I've had issues with condoms...

Best case -- Can go like a porn star until exhaustion and never climax

Typical case --- Get it in and work it semi-rigid for a little while before going soft

Worst case --- Go soft quickly and can't get in


The only condoms I can do OK with are D urex Ex tra Se nsitive.

Only did raw once. Great performance, but not recommended.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Down Low

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Normal people should never possess rubbers, much less use them. Every time you happen to see it in your sock drawer or wallet, it's an advertisement for the degenerate lifestyle.

I can't stress enough that men should never castrate themselves. Leave that to faggots and self-loathers.

The mistake is to go after low-quality women in the first place. I can't stress enough that, a day or two after you cvm in the slore, you're going to be right back in the same condition you were in beforehand. Going after slores instead of high-quality women guarantees that all your gaming and self-improvement is wasted.

Also, I strongly agree that attraction makes for hardness. BUT . . . mere physical attraction to a complete stranger isn't enough for guys who are more sensitive. They get soft 'cuz they're actually trying to get around the mental drive to do biological mating.
 

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If I use anything thicker than an ultra-thin I can easily run into problems. I prefer Trojans myself as they have the best fit, Lifestyles were too snug, never tried Durex.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I found out that sometime wearing a condom makes my erection weaker,sometimes even making hard to penetrate a pvssy, let alone an ass.

Im trying to find out if it could be some component on the condom to which I could have a reaction, if its the pressure around my c0ck or its a psychological factor.

When doing girls raw dog I go hard as rock and have no problem to enter, but with condoms if its not round1 where Im super horny, it could be problematic.
try those estasy Trojan condoms, they really feel like your not wearing nothing at all, that's the only condoms I buy
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I found out that sometime wearing a condom makes my erection weaker,sometimes even making hard to penetrate a pvssy, let alone an ass.

Im trying to find out if it could be some component on the condom to which I could have a reaction, if its the pressure around my c0ck or its a psychological factor.

When doing girls raw dog I go hard as rock and have no problem to enter, but with condoms if its not round1 where Im super horny, it could be problematic.

It's psychological.

As for using one. I can last long as I barely feel anything and without the full feeling even if I'm really into it...it just takes much longer to explode. Without one I have to really focus to last, or stop, change positions, or go back to more foreplay.
 

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Defiantly psychological.

I enjoy it a lot more now with a condom. In an LTR, I was going in raw and was worried about her getting pregnant. I was always pulling out with the thought in my head.

Got under the sheets with someone else, used a condom. No worries about STDs or catching anything, could bang away with a very explosive climax.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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