"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you happen to have problems while wearing condoms?

Who Dares Win

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I found out that sometime wearing a condom makes my erection weaker,sometimes even making hard to penetrate a pvssy, let alone an ass.

Im trying to find out if it could be some component on the condom to which I could have a reaction, if its the pressure around my c0ck or its a psychological factor.

When doing girls raw dog I go hard as rock and have no problem to enter, but with condoms if its not round1 where Im super horny, it could be problematic.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Married Buried

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I never wear condoms anymore except to make me last longer. I use those extended condoms that make your **** numb, and bang for an hour.
 

Greasy Pig

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Yep, had similar issues. It's definitely psychological.
Sometimes I could bang like a porn star with a condom on, and other times my wang would just refuse to cooperate.
The temptation will be to just rawdog the random slvts you pick up, but I caught the clap twice from doing that.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
Yep, had similar issues. It's definitely psychological.
Sometimes I could bang like a porn star with a condom on, and other times my wang would just refuse to cooperate.
The temptation will be to just rawdog the random slvts you pick up, but I caught the clap twice from doing that.

It depends how hot the female is you are banging. Once I was banging a girl I wasn't that attracted to and I went limp wearing a condom.

Don't bang girls you are not attracted to and you won't go limp.
 

Mike32ct

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Yeah I've had issues with condoms...

Best case -- Can go like a porn star until exhaustion and never climax

Typical case --- Get it in and work it semi-rigid for a little while before going soft

Worst case --- Go soft quickly and can't get in


The only condoms I can do OK with are D urex Ex tra Se nsitive.

Only did raw once. Great performance, but not recommended.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Down Low

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Normal people should never possess rubbers, much less use them. Every time you happen to see it in your sock drawer or wallet, it's an advertisement for the degenerate lifestyle.

I can't stress enough that men should never castrate themselves. Leave that to faggots and self-loathers.

The mistake is to go after low-quality women in the first place. I can't stress enough that, a day or two after you cvm in the slore, you're going to be right back in the same condition you were in beforehand. Going after slores instead of high-quality women guarantees that all your gaming and self-improvement is wasted.

Also, I strongly agree that attraction makes for hardness. BUT . . . mere physical attraction to a complete stranger isn't enough for guys who are more sensitive. They get soft 'cuz they're actually trying to get around the mental drive to do biological mating.
 

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If I use anything thicker than an ultra-thin I can easily run into problems. I prefer Trojans myself as they have the best fit, Lifestyles were too snug, never tried Durex.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I found out that sometime wearing a condom makes my erection weaker,sometimes even making hard to penetrate a pvssy, let alone an ass.

Im trying to find out if it could be some component on the condom to which I could have a reaction, if its the pressure around my c0ck or its a psychological factor.

When doing girls raw dog I go hard as rock and have no problem to enter, but with condoms if its not round1 where Im super horny, it could be problematic.
try those estasy Trojan condoms, they really feel like your not wearing nothing at all, that's the only condoms I buy
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I found out that sometime wearing a condom makes my erection weaker,sometimes even making hard to penetrate a pvssy, let alone an ass.

Im trying to find out if it could be some component on the condom to which I could have a reaction, if its the pressure around my c0ck or its a psychological factor.

When doing girls raw dog I go hard as rock and have no problem to enter, but with condoms if its not round1 where Im super horny, it could be problematic.

It's psychological.

As for using one. I can last long as I barely feel anything and without the full feeling even if I'm really into it...it just takes much longer to explode. Without one I have to really focus to last, or stop, change positions, or go back to more foreplay.
 

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Defiantly psychological.

I enjoy it a lot more now with a condom. In an LTR, I was going in raw and was worried about her getting pregnant. I was always pulling out with the thought in my head.

Got under the sheets with someone else, used a condom. No worries about STDs or catching anything, could bang away with a very explosive climax.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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