"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you happen to have problems while wearing condoms?

Who Dares Win

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I found out that sometime wearing a condom makes my erection weaker,sometimes even making hard to penetrate a pvssy, let alone an ass.

Im trying to find out if it could be some component on the condom to which I could have a reaction, if its the pressure around my c0ck or its a psychological factor.

When doing girls raw dog I go hard as rock and have no problem to enter, but with condoms if its not round1 where Im super horny, it could be problematic.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Married Buried

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I never wear condoms anymore except to make me last longer. I use those extended condoms that make your **** numb, and bang for an hour.
 

Greasy Pig

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Yep, had similar issues. It's definitely psychological.
Sometimes I could bang like a porn star with a condom on, and other times my wang would just refuse to cooperate.
The temptation will be to just rawdog the random slvts you pick up, but I caught the clap twice from doing that.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
Yep, had similar issues. It's definitely psychological.
Sometimes I could bang like a porn star with a condom on, and other times my wang would just refuse to cooperate.
The temptation will be to just rawdog the random slvts you pick up, but I caught the clap twice from doing that.

It depends how hot the female is you are banging. Once I was banging a girl I wasn't that attracted to and I went limp wearing a condom.

Don't bang girls you are not attracted to and you won't go limp.
 

Mike32ct

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Yeah I've had issues with condoms...

Best case -- Can go like a porn star until exhaustion and never climax

Typical case --- Get it in and work it semi-rigid for a little while before going soft

Worst case --- Go soft quickly and can't get in


The only condoms I can do OK with are D urex Ex tra Se nsitive.

Only did raw once. Great performance, but not recommended.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Down Low

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Normal people should never possess rubbers, much less use them. Every time you happen to see it in your sock drawer or wallet, it's an advertisement for the degenerate lifestyle.

I can't stress enough that men should never castrate themselves. Leave that to faggots and self-loathers.

The mistake is to go after low-quality women in the first place. I can't stress enough that, a day or two after you cvm in the slore, you're going to be right back in the same condition you were in beforehand. Going after slores instead of high-quality women guarantees that all your gaming and self-improvement is wasted.

Also, I strongly agree that attraction makes for hardness. BUT . . . mere physical attraction to a complete stranger isn't enough for guys who are more sensitive. They get soft 'cuz they're actually trying to get around the mental drive to do biological mating.
 

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If I use anything thicker than an ultra-thin I can easily run into problems. I prefer Trojans myself as they have the best fit, Lifestyles were too snug, never tried Durex.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I found out that sometime wearing a condom makes my erection weaker,sometimes even making hard to penetrate a pvssy, let alone an ass.

Im trying to find out if it could be some component on the condom to which I could have a reaction, if its the pressure around my c0ck or its a psychological factor.

When doing girls raw dog I go hard as rock and have no problem to enter, but with condoms if its not round1 where Im super horny, it could be problematic.
try those estasy Trojan condoms, they really feel like your not wearing nothing at all, that's the only condoms I buy
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I found out that sometime wearing a condom makes my erection weaker,sometimes even making hard to penetrate a pvssy, let alone an ass.

Im trying to find out if it could be some component on the condom to which I could have a reaction, if its the pressure around my c0ck or its a psychological factor.

When doing girls raw dog I go hard as rock and have no problem to enter, but with condoms if its not round1 where Im super horny, it could be problematic.

It's psychological.

As for using one. I can last long as I barely feel anything and without the full feeling even if I'm really into it...it just takes much longer to explode. Without one I have to really focus to last, or stop, change positions, or go back to more foreplay.
 

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Defiantly psychological.

I enjoy it a lot more now with a condom. In an LTR, I was going in raw and was worried about her getting pregnant. I was always pulling out with the thought in my head.

Got under the sheets with someone else, used a condom. No worries about STDs or catching anything, could bang away with a very explosive climax.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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