“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you guys use protection?

sosuave213

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Should you always wear a rubber with your plates?

Pulling out isn't worth the pregnancy scare IMO but otherwise sex just doesn't feel good...hmm.

Then again all of my LTRs we wore a rubber at first. What are your thoughts?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Yes, I always use protection. That's Iron Rule of Tomassi #5. I was doing that even before Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 was promoted by Rollo.

Using condoms is a good idea for both preventing STDs and for preventing pregnancy.
 

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In all my years, I can only remember one girl ever requesting that I wear a condom. I got 2 std's out of 77 different girls. I never had to worry about the pregnancy deal because I had a vasectomy in my late 20's.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I stopped using condoms after the vasectomy. I fvcked the wrong bytch somewhere down the line and got the herp. If I were to change one thing, it would be storing some of my sperm before the vasectomy. If I'm honest, I would recommend most of the guys on this site store their sperm and get a vasectomy. It'll prevent you from making a monthly payment to a h00ker for 18 years.
 

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Yes. Ive only raw dogged 3 women in my life, one of whom is my wife. The other two were long term girlfriends when I was in my late 20s. Don’t raw dawg 304s and don’t raw dawg any chick you couldn’t see yourself dealing with forever. Sharing DNA to make a child is a permanent decision.

Also, I’ve never had STDs. I heard they suck. I knew one dude who said it burned like a fire to urinate. No thank you!!!
 

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You should always use a condom. Not only is it unsafe for you to go in raw, it's even more dangerous for women not just in terms of pregnancy, but in the severity of disease symptoms. What might be virtually harmless to you could lead to cervical cancer for a woman. And as seducers/lovers of women we need to genuinely care about women's wellbeing.
otherwise sex just doesn't feel good
Maybe you just haven't found the right condom for you. There are tons of brands and variations out there, and the right fit and thinness could make you feel like there's barely anything there at all. A common one a lot of people swear by is Skyn, which I also like.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Bro these comments are concerning...y'all crazy for banging chicks without a rubber.

I've been with a good number of women and I've only smashed a handful without a condom...most were either girlfriends or situationships.
 

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Bro these comments are concerning...y'all crazy for banging chicks without a rubber.

I've been with a good number of women and I've only smashed a handful without a condom...most were either girlfriends or situationships.
I'm not trying to convince you otherwise and I'm not saying you won't get an STD, but between me and two other buddies we have banged 300 women combined and had contracted STD's 10 times between the 3 of us. For practicality, condom usage was next to nothing. That's a 3% chance of getting something. I don't exactly call that high risk. Fortunately none of us ever got anything we couldn't take a pill and get rid of.

If you are taking home girls you find in bars , then your risk will be greater. Thats how I got the two std's I had. And you'll know it a few days later. I never got anything from the girls I met online and actually had a few dates before we had sex.
 
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between me and two other buddies we have banged 300 women combined and had contracted STD's 10 times between the 3 of us. For practicality, condom usage was next to nothing. That's a 3% chance of getting something. I don't exactly call that high risk. Fortunately none of us ever got anything we couldn't take a pill and get rid of.
Not exactly.
One of the members here caught herpes. There’s no pill that 100% cures this.

If a man (and we’re suppose to be the secs that has higher scruples) admits to having herpes and still screws without protection… the imagine the percentage of women that do this.

Pickups = protection
Relationships = getting a checkup before and after - if going unprotected.
 

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Not exactly.
One of the members here caught herpes. There’s no pill that 100% cures this.
I'm aware there is no pill to cure herpes. Fortunately, None of us ever got that either.

I'd say the majority of people passing STD's around don't know they have it. They are having sex with different people more than once a week. I banged two different girls in one week. Both came out of bars. I had no idea which one infected me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I rarely do anymore. I fvcking hate condoms. I get tested twice a year, never caught anything, never had symptoms.

I'm at the point where I focus on quality over quantity, and I'd like to think my vetting process excludes hoes with STDs (I won't even fvck girls with tats), so I think I tend to avoid girls with STDs just by my selection process alone. I do also believe that strong immune systems can prevent STDS to some extent, why the fvck wouldn't it?
 

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Nah these comments are crazy...

Getting a girl pregnant or contracting herpes or something is a legitimate fear I have considering how much I get around. And you guys are on here talking about choosing better and vetting out girls with STDs as if you "just know" is wild...especially when you look around on this forum and see how often women lie.
 

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I always wear protection with plates. A night of sex is not worth a life-time STD, 18 years of child support payments, or both.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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