"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you guys trust your instincts if you feel a girl is sleeping with other guys

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Incognito72

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I've been chilling with this girl a bit recently. I do like her, but I get the feeling that she's sleeping with other guys. I know she has once in the last week but I get the feeling she was with that guy or other guys more than that one night. Add to that she never wants to have sex with me other than the one time we had sex. We've slept in the same bed a couple of times but that's as far as it went.

Now after I found out she slept with another guy she became really apologetic, has stepped up the amount of times she's contacted me, and she was very physical the last time I chilled with her.

I'm just not sure if I should trust my instincts on this one.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ENIGMA16

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Are you two exclusive or just fvcking?

If you're not exclusive then it's not your business. You can make it yours if you feel like but IMO that's a douche move.
 
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Yeah, unless you are just f*cking her, I would walk away. P.S. Always watch out for the girls who say that they have more " guy friends" than "girl friends" too.
 
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Incognito72

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We're not exclusive. And we're not ****ing either (well, we had sex once, but that's it). I realize it's none of my business; I guess it bothered me because I liked her and she did a ****ty job of hiding it from me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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supersperms

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1 - yes I follow my instincts, gut feelings, even dreams often.

2 - next time you see her - get sex or bail and initiate NC.
 
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