"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you guys trust your instincts if you feel a girl is sleeping with other guys

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Incognito72

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I've been chilling with this girl a bit recently. I do like her, but I get the feeling that she's sleeping with other guys. I know she has once in the last week but I get the feeling she was with that guy or other guys more than that one night. Add to that she never wants to have sex with me other than the one time we had sex. We've slept in the same bed a couple of times but that's as far as it went.

Now after I found out she slept with another guy she became really apologetic, has stepped up the amount of times she's contacted me, and she was very physical the last time I chilled with her.

I'm just not sure if I should trust my instincts on this one.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ENIGMA16

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Are you two exclusive or just fvcking?

If you're not exclusive then it's not your business. You can make it yours if you feel like but IMO that's a douche move.
 
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Yeah, unless you are just f*cking her, I would walk away. P.S. Always watch out for the girls who say that they have more " guy friends" than "girl friends" too.
 
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Incognito72

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We're not exclusive. And we're not ****ing either (well, we had sex once, but that's it). I realize it's none of my business; I guess it bothered me because I liked her and she did a ****ty job of hiding it from me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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supersperms

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1 - yes I follow my instincts, gut feelings, even dreams often.

2 - next time you see her - get sex or bail and initiate NC.
 
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