The other day i was using my cousins Instagram account & i search for this girl i had a crush on back in high school. so i look her up on Instagram & when i went to her profile page she had it on private. so idk if i added her on my cousins Instagram by mistake because the next day when i went to her profile page again she changed her profile picture of herself to a art drawing. & she also deleted some of her posts. but then when i went again she put a picture of herself again on her profile picture. but i heard from a friend of mine that she made a new Instagram account & she puts a lot of pictures in her new account. but her other Instagram account she deleted a lot of pictures but she uses both of those account. so idk if its because of me
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do you guys think she did this because of me?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
logicallefty
Moderator
If your cousin has pictures of himself on his Instagram and he doesn't look like the type of guy she would be attracted to, then yeah, it could have been because of you (posing as your cousin). Could have also been just coincidence/timing. But on the other hand some women do have multiple social media accounts on the same system, like two Instagrams, two Facebooks. etc. Both in their real name with real pictures. They go back and fourth, actively managing both said accounts. Maybe they think two accounts with 1000 friends will give them faster orbital validation than one account with 2000 friends? Who knows! 
It might not have anything to do with you but this is Easy. She has an account when she is in a relationship and a different one when she is on a “break”. A woman who is constantly changing or updating her social media is a red flag to me. I know women who have had tons of social media orbiters after they broke up with their ex. Two weeks later they deleted almost all of them because the ex boyfriend was back in the picture. She needed all these orbiters to help her get over the break up but now that the ex is back it’s delete delete before he finds out. A woman will also change her profile pic to anything else but a photo of herself afraid that men will find her, especially the ones she has fawked her while on break.
backseatjuan
Banned
Can you use your own account to visit her on any social media not just instagram, and message her, just say 'Good afternoon, my name is Kian, what's your name?', if she's interested in meeting you she will respond, then just ask her what she likes doing in her spare time, then quickly get her whatsapp number or whatever get her number, tell her do you want to skip a week of chatting before a date and go straight to the part where we do shots, become best friends and make everyone jealous of us..?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Yeah, head asplode
I just thought she did that because of me. Cause my cousins had a picture of me in the background & maybe she found out that was my cousins or sonmething. So I might added follow on my cousins Instagram & maybe that’s why she deleted some of her posts, changed a picture of herself to an art drawing. But then the next day when I went to her profile page again she put a picture of herself again on her profile picture. So idk if she made a new Instagram account because of me but she keeps putting more pictures in her new Instagram account so idk I guess she did it because of me then.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Do what he said and stop over thinking and over analyzing, this is a feminine trait.
Alpha dont do that
So do you guys think she didn’t deleted her profile picture Of herself to an art drawing & deleted some of her posts, & made a new Instagram account because of me. But idk why she made a new Instagram account & puts a lot of pictures in her new account
backseatjuan
Banned
Fellow, you have a wrong sense of reality. You are seeking a confirmation that this girl likes you, as if she does, you would have a green light to talk to her without the fear or rejection. If she liked you like that, she would find out your profile, visit it, put likes on your photos, and write you a message saying hi, I'm such and such, I'm a wonderful nice girl, and I'm single!
What you have to do is described in the post by me above, do it, and you will find out if she likes you or not.
I can not believe I was once in your place! Sht you reek champ! You need to take a serious approach to yourself right this moment and change yourself drastically. Forget women, go ahead and do what I said with that girl, but other than that forget women for a little while, just focus on yourself. Are you ready to change your life?
What you have to do is described in the post by me above, do it, and you will find out if she likes you or not.
I can not believe I was once in your place! Sht you reek champ! You need to take a serious approach to yourself right this moment and change yourself drastically. Forget women, go ahead and do what I said with that girl, but other than that forget women for a little while, just focus on yourself. Are you ready to change your life?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.