Maximus Optimus
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I got more women when I owned a 2009 Toyota Celica then I do with my 2019 Mustang. It makes no sense.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You know the difference between a porcupine and a Mustang?I got more women when I owned a 2009 Toyota Celica then I do with my 2019 Mustang. It makes no sense.
Mustang is considered is a "nice car" now?I got more women when I owned a 2009 Toyota Celica then I do with my 2019 Mustang. It makes no sense.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This.Not the sort of women you probably want.
“Nice car” is a subjective term. Remember, most women are clueless about cars. Most women cant tell the difference between a BMW 1Series and a BMW 7 Series. So a powerful Mustang will largely impress fellow men.I got more women when I owned a 2009 Toyota Celica then I do with my 2019 Mustang. It makes no sense.
I agree with this.I think worthwhile women are far more interested in being seen in something stylish or unique than something expensive.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I’m not getting into the whole what you drive/get women argument, but if you think your car helps your lay count, I do know there’s nothing exorbitantly pricey or unique about a Mustang. They’re Everywhere…I got more women when I owned a 2009 Toyota Celica then I do with my 2019 Mustang. It makes no sense.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You got a bed in that thing?Day to day I drive one of these...![]()
It doesn't get more anonymous than a white van.
I don't even own a car anymore. I'm just about to fit a towbar to my van
so I can buy a motorcycle trailer. My last van was a Mercedes Sprinter and
my bikes fitted in the back of that particular van.
I got a vivaro like this: but fully kitted out for glamping. Solar panel, bed, heater, etc.Day to day I drive one of these...![]()
It doesn't get more anonymous than a white van.
I don't even own a car anymore. I'm just about to fit a towbar to my van
so I can buy a motorcycle trailer. My last van was a Mercedes Sprinter and
my bikes fitted in the back of that particular van.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.