"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you guys think having a nice car can get you a woman?

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I got more women when I owned a 2009 Toyota Celica then I do with my 2019 Mustang. It makes no sense.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Looks, money, status and game. A nice car may reflect your status or that you have money. But you don't get women because of your car. It's the whole package and the aura that you broadcast. A nice car may even backfire like 'What is he trying to compensate with that car".
 

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Not the sort of women you probably want.

Of course, it's probably not gonna hurt you unless you brag about it. But a car won't do sh*t for your game on its own.
 

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I got more women when I owned a 2009 Toyota Celica then I do with my 2019 Mustang. It makes no sense.
You know the difference between a porcupine and a Mustang?
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A porcupine has its pricks on the outside :rofl:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If you want the best results, motorcycles boots and leathers work much better.
I've had nice cars, vans and bikes but when I'm on my bike it's other level stuff!!!
Constant IOI's when in my bike kit, even with a smoked visor, in fact the black
visor seems to only increase my appeal to them. I guess it taps into thrill seeking,
danger, anonymity, speed, adrenaline and even trust receptors in a woman if she is on the back.

Doesn't work so well if you're a fatty, I ride with a few guys who are a lot more rotund
than I and they dont report the same findings. Maybe the fit looking, triangle shaped
guy on a bike in leathers is a common female fantasy? Maybe because in the UK biking
isn't a hugely popular thing at all because of our climate so that marks you out as different?
Whatever, I've melted a few ladies with a slow visor raise, a cheeky wink of the ol green eye
and then a dramatic, fast, exit into the distance.
 

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I got more women when I owned a 2009 Toyota Celica then I do with my 2019 Mustang. It makes no sense.
“Nice car” is a subjective term. Remember, most women are clueless about cars. Most women cant tell the difference between a BMW 1Series and a BMW 7 Series. So a powerful Mustang will largely impress fellow men.

The version of you that drove the Celica got more results because he knew his car wasnt a status symbol and so couldnt be relied upon for that purpose.
The guy now in the Mustang subconsciously may be lazier with game because he thinks the “nice car” validation he gets from bros is quietly present in females.

A muscle car wont get you much pvssy (apart from gold-digger daughters of car mechanics).
Real muscle on your physique will probably yield better results
 

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I'm always of the opinion that cars don't actually get you women. But it has worked for me a few times. When I had my RX-8, women did like it, both riding in it and being seen in it.

If you want to attract women you're far better off owning a classic car than a ferrari, or a super loud/super lifted small penis compensation vehicle.

I think worthwhile women are far more interested in being seen in something stylish or unique than something expensive.
 

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I think worthwhile women are far more interested in being seen in something stylish or unique than something expensive.
I agree with this.

Also your car can silently speak up for you and give a girl a sense of how clean/tidy you are, your sense of taste, your frugality level, your sophistication, status(whether false or real), etc. as well. This can in turn diffuse certain uncertainties one might wonder about someone and have them be more comfortable or open in talking with you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you want women (and everyone else in the world) to approach you, get one of these. There is such a thing as Ural Delay Factor where you can't ride one of these sidecar bikes anywhere without everyone and their mother coming up to you to ask questions about it.

Put a dog in the sidecar, and women will approach you everywhere you go.

On the downside, they're SLOW.
 

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Back to looks vs game essentially.
A similar thing for me was before I did pick up I had torn clothes and only showered once a week if that, and didn’t brush my teeth. But had women react strongly to me in very positive ways
 

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ofcourse your car helps, women are attracted to status,

even dossers in the UK can afford a mediocre mercedes.

pull up in a ford fiesta 1.4 and let me know how that works out for you. on anything but single moms with 4 kids
 

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Said it before - and have had comments from women to support the idea....
So long as it's at least half-decent - It's more about how you keep it, particularly the interior.
I always keep my cars spotless, and my current Saab has a gorgeous cream-leather interior - I've even been told by a woman that if my car had been 'manky', there's no way she'd have set foot in my house.
 

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I got more women when I owned a 2009 Toyota Celica then I do with my 2019 Mustang. It makes no sense.
I’m not getting into the whole what you drive/get women argument, but if you think your car helps your lay count, I do know there’s nothing exorbitantly pricey or unique about a Mustang. They’re Everywhere…
Nothing about that drive would set you apart from the crowd in most women’s eyes…
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girls like to be seen by their social circle in a nice car. nice means something more expensive than the typical member of their group. A high-end Lexis, Audi, BMW, Jaguar, and above will do unless her friends all have those already even if all of them are on credit. it's relative to her social circle. If you spent two or three times for your ride over what her friends spent, then it's a nice car. Meaning if the girl is from the other side of the tracks, a mustang might be a nice car to her friends who have NO car.

she doesn't care if yours is on credit or not as long as your credit card is still working. I don't know many women(that I find attractive) that truly understand net worth vs presentation skills. the message in that is if wanting more inbound women, increase presentation. marketing companies know this inside out and have many men so far underwater in an attempt to increase presentation.

ah.. but I want a quality woman that doesn't care about such things. ya... don't we all, then we wake up and enjoy what comes to us.

car is part of SMV, just like a house, boat, horses, etc.. There are girls that can see value in a 100k car and nothing in a nice house because her friends will not see her in that house.

for our own peace, don't spend more on the car than you can afford to lose and continue your life, otherwise, we are a slave to it and MUST do things that we don't want to keep it such as a crappy job...

plenty of girls that will pick the guy in good shape driving a pickup. in bad shape and pickup... yikes...
 

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Day to day I drive one of these...

It doesn't get more anonymous than a white van. :lol:
I don't even own a car anymore. I'm just about to fit a towbar to my van
so I can buy a motorcycle trailer. My last van was a Mercedes Sprinter and
my bikes fitted in the back of that particular van.
 

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Day to day I drive one of these...

It doesn't get more anonymous than a white van. :lol:
I don't even own a car anymore. I'm just about to fit a towbar to my van
so I can buy a motorcycle trailer. My last van was a Mercedes Sprinter and
my bikes fitted in the back of that particular van.
You got a bed in that thing? :)
 

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Day to day I drive one of these...

It doesn't get more anonymous than a white van. :lol:
I don't even own a car anymore. I'm just about to fit a towbar to my van
so I can buy a motorcycle trailer. My last van was a Mercedes Sprinter and
my bikes fitted in the back of that particular van.
I got a vivaro like this: but fully kitted out for glamping. Solar panel, bed, heater, etc.

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Girls I meet ALWAYS want to check it out.
 

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Great UK, Euro vans guys.

Women would be happy to be seen in a Van, its a symbol the man aquires resources
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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