"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you guys sarge alone?

oneboy21

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If you are in your own town its pretty normal that we all sarge in malls and in book stores. What about long week ends and holiday trips. Do you guys go by your self or with friends?
What kind of places you choose when you are out of town
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oneboy21 said:
If you are in your own town its pretty normal that we all sarge in malls and in book stores. What about long week ends and holiday trips. Do you guys go by your self or with friends?
What kind of places you choose when you are out of town
I usually don't sarge in public. I sarge with lotion sometimes I will use Vaseline. I usially do it by myself ,but I have surged with a friend a couple of times(NO HOMO).
 

Slick Rick-NZ

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OKay can someone please leave the definition of sarging?
xXColdWorld23Xx makes it sound like masturbating lol I hope those other guys arn't sarging in public then.
Cheers Slick..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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bigneil

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Absolutely - I've picked up women from coast to coast when traveling alone. It's much easier alone because you don't need to find another girl for your friend(s). The girls friend will c*ckblock you if she doesn't like your friend. That said, having a good wing man can be great also.
 

goldengoose

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phatboi408 said:
I sarge alone all the time. That's how you get better! Malls, clubs, coffee shops, bars.
you must have a fake id if they let you in a bar at 20
 

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goldengoose said:
you must have a fake id if they let you in a bar at 20
They let me in when I tried, and I was 15.
Sarge alone often, mostly parties. Just step out from your comfort zone from the beginning, unless you want a bad night.
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
Just step out from your comfort zone from the beginning, unless you want a bad night.
YES
This thread is cold but damn that is an awesome perspective.
The flip side of the coin, which makes it(leaving your comfort zone ie Your bar, friends, neighborhood, city etc.) even awesomer, is that to sarge in this game you must kill your hesitation. Is having your friend(s) there really going to matter, To You, when looking at and then talking to New Women? In regards to traveling and approaches that is easier alone too. Friends and family depend on you abnormally while travelling together so approaches are pointless unless its spring break or something. When Staying in other cities for longer periods sarging is still the best way to go. If more people sarged life would better I'm all about it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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