"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you guys sarge alone?

oneboy21

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If you are in your own town its pretty normal that we all sarge in malls and in book stores. What about long week ends and holiday trips. Do you guys go by your self or with friends?
What kind of places you choose when you are out of town
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oneboy21 said:
If you are in your own town its pretty normal that we all sarge in malls and in book stores. What about long week ends and holiday trips. Do you guys go by your self or with friends?
What kind of places you choose when you are out of town
I usually don't sarge in public. I sarge with lotion sometimes I will use Vaseline. I usially do it by myself ,but I have surged with a friend a couple of times(NO HOMO).
 

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OKay can someone please leave the definition of sarging?
xXColdWorld23Xx makes it sound like masturbating lol I hope those other guys arn't sarging in public then.
Cheers Slick..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Absolutely - I've picked up women from coast to coast when traveling alone. It's much easier alone because you don't need to find another girl for your friend(s). The girls friend will c*ckblock you if she doesn't like your friend. That said, having a good wing man can be great also.
 

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phatboi408 said:
I sarge alone all the time. That's how you get better! Malls, clubs, coffee shops, bars.
you must have a fake id if they let you in a bar at 20
 

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goldengoose said:
you must have a fake id if they let you in a bar at 20
They let me in when I tried, and I was 15.
Sarge alone often, mostly parties. Just step out from your comfort zone from the beginning, unless you want a bad night.
 

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Just step out from your comfort zone from the beginning, unless you want a bad night.
YES
This thread is cold but damn that is an awesome perspective.
The flip side of the coin, which makes it(leaving your comfort zone ie Your bar, friends, neighborhood, city etc.) even awesomer, is that to sarge in this game you must kill your hesitation. Is having your friend(s) there really going to matter, To You, when looking at and then talking to New Women? In regards to traveling and approaches that is easier alone too. Friends and family depend on you abnormally while travelling together so approaches are pointless unless its spring break or something. When Staying in other cities for longer periods sarging is still the best way to go. If more people sarged life would better I'm all about it
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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