"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do you guys like this style?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ImprovingJuan

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when i dressed like this some time ago, i had girls checking me out. dont know if its ok now or not. personally i love black, white and gray colors.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ImprovingJuan

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do you think i can pull off some girls getting some tan and dressing like this, with some classy shades (ray ban aviator for example) ?
 

gravityeyelids

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i mean i wouldnt go grocery shopping or do very casual activities in this, such as going to a BBQ outside or playing minigolf just chilling out or whatever. But if you're going out to eat, grabbing a drink or coffee or even just walking around downtown or a place where youll be seen, then I think it's a fresh look.
 

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Honestly, the style you choose isn't as important. Dress the way that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Being put together (as far as clothing and hygiene) is waaaay more effective than stressing over, or choosing, a specific style.
 

Don-Kong

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Blazers all the way. Good Italian shirt. Trousers or denim jeans, great shoes.

STATUS, as Lame as it seems, oozes value, ambition, passion, confidence etc
 
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