Travel memoir21
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I went to the mall yesterday and I got a facial with my parents. It felt relaxing and chill, they give you a head massage afterwards. Do you guys go to spas? That maybe a good way to de-stress.
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Do you guys go to Spas- massages, facials, get pedicures for Men?
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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BaronOfHair
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Hope you tipped the 16 year old Cambodian girl who serviced you lavishly. She was almost certainly flogged with quadrapule the usual stripes by the spa's proprietor otherwise
Yeah, I enjoy getting a massage regularly
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On certain times of year/circumstnaces I might entertian the idea.
I got a pedicure done up in February for example, and a lady (SE Asian?) was touching my feet. I was just looking at her play with my feet and yeah that was cool. She massaged my feet afterwards with her bare hands, she kept the gloves off.
But generally any woman's touch is a big deal with me so I tend to use those types of services very sparingly, with certain restricted occasions, because another woman is touching me.
Seriously, the other day a female dentist did work on my teeth and her front panths accidentally touched my right arm/hand, and it's like even that turned me on. So, like spas and places like that sound like good, safe and less demonic type of places to pay for touch.
I got a pedicure done up in February for example, and a lady (SE Asian?) was touching my feet. I was just looking at her play with my feet and yeah that was cool. She massaged my feet afterwards with her bare hands, she kept the gloves off.
But generally any woman's touch is a big deal with me so I tend to use those types of services very sparingly, with certain restricted occasions, because another woman is touching me.
Seriously, the other day a female dentist did work on my teeth and her front panths accidentally touched my right arm/hand, and it's like even that turned me on. So, like spas and places like that sound like good, safe and less demonic type of places to pay for touch.
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Never had a massage before, but it’s something I’ve recently been thinking about trying out.
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The chat gpt that generates your posts must not have watched much porn.
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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Sports massage a couple of times a year. I have friend who is therapist & I go see her. It does make a difference for tightness/mobility and I would recommend for you guys.
Manicures and pedicures? I cannot see myself....but if you want immaculate hands and feet, great. I'm a bit too caveman fo that
Manicures and pedicures? I cannot see myself....but if you want immaculate hands and feet, great. I'm a bit too caveman fo that
Hamurabimbi
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I don’t like massages. I’ve gotten two.
Manicure. Had once. Too much trouble. I can do it myself. Same with pedicure.
Ideally, I’d get a facial once a month. For skin care, not for stress relief. Often too busy.
As an amusing ‘facial’ anecdote. I was talking with a coworker about skin care and sunscreen, as we were having a heat wave. I mentioned I might get a facial at the spa. She laughed and said she likes facials. But prefers to get them in the bedroom, not the spa.
Manicure. Had once. Too much trouble. I can do it myself. Same with pedicure.
Ideally, I’d get a facial once a month. For skin care, not for stress relief. Often too busy.
As an amusing ‘facial’ anecdote. I was talking with a coworker about skin care and sunscreen, as we were having a heat wave. I mentioned I might get a facial at the spa. She laughed and said she likes facials. But prefers to get them in the bedroom, not the spa.