"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do you guys get laid off Tinder?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
El Payaso
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Yes, I do get laid but not with 8s and up, hell or even 6’s. But it does the job. I do get laid with 3’s and 4’s on the average. 5’s if I’m lucky.
Follow these steps if you’re a noob using it. http://www.wikihow.com/Chat-on-Tinder http://www.mensaxis.com/how-to-get-laid-on-tinder/ .
Don’t be choosey and use some protection and you're all good!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I use a direct approach and just ask them out. On tinder I use this: You look like a girl that my mom warned me about.....She says oh really what? I say trouble the good kind.
Then try to set up a date.
