"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do you guys ever open with a compliment?

f283000

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oh i see. so it is more important to initiate kino and such than the words?
BOTH

If you open you gotta kino right away or at the same time. Kino is not something you wait "for the right moment" for you just do it! if you wait for the "right moment" you will end up touching a girl an hour later after talking to her and creeping her out instead.

I personally kino with every opener if possible or at least with the 2nd thing I say to her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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San Jose California said:
. you nerds think too muchif it's something like "nice shoes" or "nice glasses" sure. You nerds think too much
You make a point.

While we're on the subject of thinking too much, how'd that threesome go, chief?

Daaaaaaamn! Flame warz!
 

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San Jose California said:
What's that have to do with thinking too much? Better yet, what's so insulting about pointing out a threesome opportunity?
Define hypocrisy:
Saying, "You nerds think to much," when you, about a week ago, said you have a "threesome opportunity," admitted you were a virgin, and have yet to actually do anything to show improvement in yourself in all your time on this board. Talk to us when you have a threesome, not a "threesome opportunity."

Sh*t. I got a Powerball opportunity right now, you don't see me bragging about it.

At least MoneyIsKing been laid, dude. If anyone thinks too much, it's you, because all you have is theory. Get some experience under that belt, playa.
 

loveshogun

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San Jose California said:
if you've yet to even have a threesome opportunity with two hot girls. Just... don't care, sorry.
Wrong again, playa. Been in... lemme see... 5 or 6 of those. So, I guess I've never had "threesome opportunities" with hot women. Just threesomes.

I love feeding the trolls.
 

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San Jose California said:
So you had threesomes, without having the opportunity? Dumbfuck? I love dealing with guys who think they're cool using nerd slang when really it makes them look nerdy. Listen to me, a troll is a big green monster, that's what it is. Understand? I haven't learned the nerd slang definition and am proud of that fact.
This is like taking candy from a baby that doesn't have arms. And is dead.

Judging by how long you've been here and how little you've succeeded, or done anything of note, you haven't learned much of anything, much less "nerd slang."

Once again. Had that threesome yet? Or still just "opportunities?"

Call me what you want, but it won't get you laid. Oh snap!

Everyone's got opportunities, bud. Winners turn those into success. At least it's some progress on your part to start looking at the bright side of things.

Tell you what - actually go through with the threesome, and I'll genuinely congratulate you. I'll start a new thread here to have everyone celebrate it. I will respect the accomplishment - and at the very worst, you'll be an accomplished douchebag. Nothin' wrong with that.

But, until then, you're just a regular douchebag.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For the original question, yes, all the time.

Just about everyone I know, from naturals, to PUA students, to chumps open with compliments most of the time. If people claim they never or rarely do they never or rarely get laid.

Breaking their balls alittle is great. But you can't start out that way.
 

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"Approach from an angle. Never make a direct approach. When you are angling for something you will meet resistance that cannot be overcome."

(AOS)
 

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FairShake said:
If people claim they never or rarely do they never or rarely get laid.
You'd be surprised how many times I've seen the opposite be true. I've seen so many people get turned into "chumps" when the girl has her fun feeding off the attention and then moves onward to guys that challenge her.
 

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I have success with really strange openers. I have successes with 'hey weren't you wearing glasses' and 'hey you look like you could do with a private detective' stuff like that
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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there is so much differing opinions on this, but i do agree that girls dig guys that are a challenge. i guess it's kinda both ways though. i know some guys who are really good with girls; they provide challenge but at the same time, they throw some compliments. most of em happen to be a$$sholes, but they also give her compliments time to time
 
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