“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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do you guys ever feel like you always get what you dont want?

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i dont know if you guys feel this way but I feel like the girls that I want to date, dont want to date me. the girls that want to date me, i dont want to date.

there was this girl who i really actively pursued for maybe 3 months. and right now i have her eating out of the palm of my hand and ive lost interest. i'm beginning to wonder what's wrong with me.


maybe im destined to be single and forever in the hunt.

anwyasy, its late and im just blabbering on. let me know if you guys have any input or similar stories and experiences.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wierd analogy but when I was applying to colleges back in the day, I sort of felt the same way about this.

kids applying to ucla as their first choice, never got in and ended up at some other school. kids applying with their first choice to stanford or harvard got into ucla but not their first choice. with the end result that very few people are truly ecstatic about where they got into school. sucks that very few people get exactly what they want.


but shoot for the stars.. land on the moon right?
 
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If you're a 7 and go for a 9, you might be able to get a one night stand with her but it's very unlikely that you will be able to keep her. It's all about value. Now how you define value is up to you. There are some here who maintain that "game" alone determines your value, that if you have good game that makes you a 10 or whatever. I'm a little dubious about that, but if that's how you define it, okay. Just realize I am NOT talking about looks, and only looks.

So if you look at it that way, yeah, probably that one girl you wanted the most, that 9.8, yeah you probably won't be able to keep her as your permanant love slave. But as a very old band the Rolling Stones used to say, you can't always get what you want, but you get what you need. If you're a 7, you may very well get an 8, or at least another 7.
 
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garruk said:
there was this girl who i really actively pursued for maybe 3 months. and right now i have her eating out of the palm of my hand and ive lost interest. i'm beginning to wonder what's wrong with me.
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Sounds like you're more interested in the chase than the prize. Is this a trend? Do you often lose interest the moment she becomes interested? It might be that you feel like you only want the unattainable, so once you attain a girl, she seems like less of a prize.

It's like that old line from Groucho Marx: "I wouldn't want to join a club that would have someone like me as a member."
 
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The paradox of desire.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Julius_Seizeher said:
The paradox of desire.
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very true. recently, i thought that girl might have moved on to some other guy, i totally started obsessing about her again. right now, i know she's mine again and im losing interest again.


this is ridiculous! hah
 
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Julius_Seizeher said:
The paradox of desire.
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very true. recently, i thought that girl might have moved on to some other guy, i totally started obsessing about her again. right now, i know she's mine again and im losing interest again.


this is ridiculous! hah
 
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