"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Do you get the impression that only Black and White men have success interracial?

JackRobin

Banned
Joined
Dec 22, 2012
Messages
150
Reaction score
3
like I talked to my friend in Los Angeles and he said here is how interracial couples there usually go:

white men with asian or latin women

black men with white or latin women

and hispanic, asian, and brown men usually stay with their own kind

It has not been my experience at all but the impression I get from the internet is that it is the case.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

alpha_ash

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2012
Messages
240
Reaction score
8
Location
Philadelphia Suburbs
Those men who aren't with white or black women are smarter than the average white and black man. Most white chics = psycho party sluts with no sense of moral responsibility.
 

dap

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 19, 2006
Messages
275
Reaction score
7
Location
Durham Cali
Any race thread on so suave is like a roll call for its most ignorant members.
 

JackRobin

Banned
Joined
Dec 22, 2012
Messages
150
Reaction score
3
sadly enough lol

I mean I hear of so many Latinos, Asian, and Indian/Brown guys dating Eastern European and even Western European White girls but hardly with White American girls on the internet.

Seen it happen a bit in real life though.

Was sitting at Starbucks today and saw this Indian dude with long hair and a beard kissing this FINE redhead who had a nice rack, pretty face, and a cute butt on her. This happened after I posted the thread lol.

It could just be that the racists on the internet don't really get pissed when they see White women with Latinos, Asians, or Brown people.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

JackRobin

Banned
Joined
Dec 22, 2012
Messages
150
Reaction score
3
yougottaknow90 said:
I'm brown and some of the white chicks fiend the caramel. even the asian women.

brown as in mexican or brown as in other kind of brown?
 

JackRobin

Banned
Joined
Dec 22, 2012
Messages
150
Reaction score
3
yougottaknow90 said:
Indian. Punjabi to be specific.
dang that's nice

tell us a little about yourself

what kind of white girls you attract (american or european)
what kind of women you do bad with
 

yougottaknow90

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 24, 2012
Messages
97
Reaction score
7
JackRobin said:
dang that's nice

tell us a little about yourself

what kind of white girls you attract (american or european)
what kind of women you do bad with
Euro chicks are more receptive. Especially the eastern european ones. In fact, my previous LTR ~1.5 yrs ago was with a Polish girl. Blond hair + green eyes. Portuguese/Spanish/Italian seem to be indifferent to my race. In terms of white chicks (I'm in canada), it depends. It's either they like it or they're indifferent to it. It's VERY rarely a negative response from them based on my skin colour. I will say that a while back I had a canadian white chick essentially pick me up at the school cafe. she did all the work, asked for my number, invited me over, etc. but i was too afc to close the deal. She's now dating another brown guy. Heh. there was also another canadian white chick on residence in first year who was known to drop the panties if you were brown. She was straight up with her preference too.
 

JackRobin

Banned
Joined
Dec 22, 2012
Messages
150
Reaction score
3
yougottaknow90 said:
Euro chicks are more receptive. Especially the eastern european ones. In fact, my previous LTR ~1.5 yrs ago was with a Polish girl. Blond hair + green eyes. Portuguese/Spanish/Italian seem to be indifferent to my race. In terms of white chicks (I'm in canada), it depends. It's either they like it or they're indifferent to it. It's VERY rarely a negative response from them based on my skin colour. I will say that a while back I had a canadian white chick essentially pick me up at the school cafe. she did all the work, asked for my number, invited me over, etc. but i was too afc to close the deal. She's now dating another brown guy. Heh. there was also another canadian white chick on residence in first year who was known to drop the panties if you were brown. She was straight up with her preference too.
cool man cool

I also recommend you game French girls, heard they love brown men.

Also, out of curiosity, have you noticed having it hard attracting Blonde women compared to other kinds of women?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

yougottaknow90

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 24, 2012
Messages
97
Reaction score
7
JackRobin said:
cool man cool

I also recommend you game French girls, heard they love brown men.

Also, out of curiosity, have you noticed having it hard attracting Blonde women compared to other kinds of women?
i'll have to check montreal out some time then.

for blonde women, another factor i've noticed is the crowd they chill with. some of the blond chicks love jocks and bros, and for those types, it can be tough.
 

JackRobin

Banned
Joined
Dec 22, 2012
Messages
150
Reaction score
3
yougottaknow90 said:
i'll have to check montreal out some time then.

for blonde women, another factor i've noticed is the crowd they chill with. some of the blond chicks love jocks and bros, and for those types, it can be tough.
have you ever scored with one?
 

yyc12

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 23, 2012
Messages
212
Reaction score
14
Location
Calgary, Canada
yougottaknow90 said:
Euro chicks are more receptive. Especially the eastern european ones. In fact, my previous LTR ~1.5 yrs ago was with a Polish girl. Blond hair + green eyes. Portuguese/Spanish/Italian seem to be indifferent to my race. In terms of white chicks (I'm in canada), it depends. It's either they like it or they're indifferent to it. It's VERY rarely a negative response from them based on my skin colour.
In my experience, as a visible minority, the white women have to either like your race specifically or they don't go for you at all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Bokanovsky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2012
Messages
5,512
Reaction score
5,692
Not this interracial sh*t again. Waaahhh, white womenz won't fvck me, wah, wah, wah!!! How many threads on this subject do we really need??
 

yyc12

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 23, 2012
Messages
212
Reaction score
14
Location
Calgary, Canada
Why are you so fascinated by this? The women here and my experiences are really no different than when I lived in the US. Yeah, I've gotten all my lays here because I've cared about it more here than when I lived down there.

If you're only after white girls, some will date you, some won't. Like I said, in my experiences, the ones that were into me, typically only liked black guys (which I still find interesting). Race might affect things a bit, but you can still get many if you get your numbers up. Still a numbers game overall.

Time to let this thread die now.
 

Fatal Jay

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2012
Messages
1,719
Reaction score
114
coming from a black guy, black guys don't care cause most black guys have nothing to lose and women of other races like that indifference.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Top