"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you get the impression that only Black and White men have success interracial?

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like I talked to my friend in Los Angeles and he said here is how interracial couples there usually go:

white men with asian or latin women

black men with white or latin women

and hispanic, asian, and brown men usually stay with their own kind

It has not been my experience at all but the impression I get from the internet is that it is the case.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Those men who aren't with white or black women are smarter than the average white and black man. Most white chics = psycho party sluts with no sense of moral responsibility.
 

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Any race thread on so suave is like a roll call for its most ignorant members.
 

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sadly enough lol

I mean I hear of so many Latinos, Asian, and Indian/Brown guys dating Eastern European and even Western European White girls but hardly with White American girls on the internet.

Seen it happen a bit in real life though.

Was sitting at Starbucks today and saw this Indian dude with long hair and a beard kissing this FINE redhead who had a nice rack, pretty face, and a cute butt on her. This happened after I posted the thread lol.

It could just be that the racists on the internet don't really get pissed when they see White women with Latinos, Asians, or Brown people.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yougottaknow90 said:
I'm brown and some of the white chicks fiend the caramel. even the asian women.

brown as in mexican or brown as in other kind of brown?
 

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yougottaknow90 said:
Indian. Punjabi to be specific.
dang that's nice

tell us a little about yourself

what kind of white girls you attract (american or european)
what kind of women you do bad with
 

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JackRobin said:
dang that's nice

tell us a little about yourself

what kind of white girls you attract (american or european)
what kind of women you do bad with
Euro chicks are more receptive. Especially the eastern european ones. In fact, my previous LTR ~1.5 yrs ago was with a Polish girl. Blond hair + green eyes. Portuguese/Spanish/Italian seem to be indifferent to my race. In terms of white chicks (I'm in canada), it depends. It's either they like it or they're indifferent to it. It's VERY rarely a negative response from them based on my skin colour. I will say that a while back I had a canadian white chick essentially pick me up at the school cafe. she did all the work, asked for my number, invited me over, etc. but i was too afc to close the deal. She's now dating another brown guy. Heh. there was also another canadian white chick on residence in first year who was known to drop the panties if you were brown. She was straight up with her preference too.
 

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yougottaknow90 said:
Euro chicks are more receptive. Especially the eastern european ones. In fact, my previous LTR ~1.5 yrs ago was with a Polish girl. Blond hair + green eyes. Portuguese/Spanish/Italian seem to be indifferent to my race. In terms of white chicks (I'm in canada), it depends. It's either they like it or they're indifferent to it. It's VERY rarely a negative response from them based on my skin colour. I will say that a while back I had a canadian white chick essentially pick me up at the school cafe. she did all the work, asked for my number, invited me over, etc. but i was too afc to close the deal. She's now dating another brown guy. Heh. there was also another canadian white chick on residence in first year who was known to drop the panties if you were brown. She was straight up with her preference too.
cool man cool

I also recommend you game French girls, heard they love brown men.

Also, out of curiosity, have you noticed having it hard attracting Blonde women compared to other kinds of women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JackRobin said:
cool man cool

I also recommend you game French girls, heard they love brown men.

Also, out of curiosity, have you noticed having it hard attracting Blonde women compared to other kinds of women?
i'll have to check montreal out some time then.

for blonde women, another factor i've noticed is the crowd they chill with. some of the blond chicks love jocks and bros, and for those types, it can be tough.
 

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yougottaknow90 said:
i'll have to check montreal out some time then.

for blonde women, another factor i've noticed is the crowd they chill with. some of the blond chicks love jocks and bros, and for those types, it can be tough.
have you ever scored with one?
 

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yougottaknow90 said:
Euro chicks are more receptive. Especially the eastern european ones. In fact, my previous LTR ~1.5 yrs ago was with a Polish girl. Blond hair + green eyes. Portuguese/Spanish/Italian seem to be indifferent to my race. In terms of white chicks (I'm in canada), it depends. It's either they like it or they're indifferent to it. It's VERY rarely a negative response from them based on my skin colour.
In my experience, as a visible minority, the white women have to either like your race specifically or they don't go for you at all.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Not this interracial sh*t again. Waaahhh, white womenz won't fvck me, wah, wah, wah!!! How many threads on this subject do we really need??
 

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Why are you so fascinated by this? The women here and my experiences are really no different than when I lived in the US. Yeah, I've gotten all my lays here because I've cared about it more here than when I lived down there.

If you're only after white girls, some will date you, some won't. Like I said, in my experiences, the ones that were into me, typically only liked black guys (which I still find interesting). Race might affect things a bit, but you can still get many if you get your numbers up. Still a numbers game overall.

Time to let this thread die now.
 

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coming from a black guy, black guys don't care cause most black guys have nothing to lose and women of other races like that indifference.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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