"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you get more "you are handsome" from older women than younger women?

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DJnoob

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Like, out of random thin air, i am asking because i recently just lost mad mad weight on a flip of a dime and started dressing well.

So, i dont have enough data on my head to compare this to previous events in my life..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Only the older ones trying to butter me up for a fast after the bar time bang.
 
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yes older owman toss the you are handsome or you are dangerous to girls and so on, I don't put much into it, I figure its more like a butter up so I will like then more, so in turn they can ask for me to do things for then
 
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I am almost 40 and decent looking, started to dress more mature/ smart casual, lost some weight, and I am getting attention from 45-50 good looking women. Same age women and younger treat me the same since the changes, but 95 percent of older women either compliment or flirt.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Older women are more likely to compliment because their SMV is lower than yours.

Specifically the word "handsome" is seen as a bit more old fashioned and used by an older generation, girls under 25 usually use "hot" or "attractive".
 
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Yes. I even fake my age on OLD (added 4 yrs lol) to date older women lol

got matched with a lot of girls that are eager to meet. Girls after 25 and 30 are much more straight forward than these princessess and attention addicted 16-25
 
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