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Do you get more "you are handsome" from older women than younger women?

DJnoob

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Like, out of random thin air, i am asking because i recently just lost mad mad weight on a flip of a dime and started dressing well.

So, i dont have enough data on my head to compare this to previous events in my life..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Billtx49

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Only the older ones trying to butter me up for a fast after the bar time bang.
 
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Alvafe

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yes older owman toss the you are handsome or you are dangerous to girls and so on, I don't put much into it, I figure its more like a butter up so I will like then more, so in turn they can ask for me to do things for then
 

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I am almost 40 and decent looking, started to dress more mature/ smart casual, lost some weight, and I am getting attention from 45-50 good looking women. Same age women and younger treat me the same since the changes, but 95 percent of older women either compliment or flirt.
 

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Older women are more likely to compliment because their SMV is lower than yours.

Specifically the word "handsome" is seen as a bit more old fashioned and used by an older generation, girls under 25 usually use "hot" or "attractive".
 

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Yes. I even fake my age on OLD (added 4 yrs lol) to date older women lol

got matched with a lot of girls that are eager to meet. Girls after 25 and 30 are much more straight forward than these princessess and attention addicted 16-25
 
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