Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you feel sorry for single mothers

Bingo-Player

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nah

currently navigating my way through a pile of them as it goes , they seem to find me like magnets

raising another mans kid does nothing for me and therefore i dont give a fvck about them from the word go ......which of course they love

most single mothers are getting laid more than girls who are on the party scene

its worrying
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Epicwinguy

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Pfft. Why should we? I see too many on Tinder who are on there just to find their stupid whiney kid a step dad.
 
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If your spouse died I think you are less likely to enter the dating game again. Single mom territory is generally people who have HUGE drama or like to generate it. When a pair bond is broken through tragedy you usually get shellshock. I know of a woman in my neighbourhood whose husband died when she was 33 or 34, they had been together for 10 years, she never dated again and is now well into her 50's, apparently he was a really good man. I think I would do the same for my wife, I'd have a really hard time not ending it as well. My wife has expressed on a few occasions that she needs to die before I do because if not she's coming in after to make sure I don't cheat on her in the next life.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There's a new guy on one of my teams. He mentioned he's engaged & plans on adopting his fiancée daughter. WTF, I just sat there cringing. I so wanted to say something but kept it to myself, none of my business & I don't know the guy.

In today's society by woman he's considered a "real" man. He's screwed in a couple yrs when they split and he f*cked over paying child support for a kid that isn't even his! That's fubar, some people are just plain stupid.

Single moms = zero empathy from me
 
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