"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you feel sorry for single mothers

Bingo-Player

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nah

currently navigating my way through a pile of them as it goes , they seem to find me like magnets

raising another mans kid does nothing for me and therefore i dont give a fvck about them from the word go ......which of course they love

most single mothers are getting laid more than girls who are on the party scene

its worrying
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Epicwinguy

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Pfft. Why should we? I see too many on Tinder who are on there just to find their stupid whiney kid a step dad.
 

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If your spouse died I think you are less likely to enter the dating game again. Single mom territory is generally people who have HUGE drama or like to generate it. When a pair bond is broken through tragedy you usually get shellshock. I know of a woman in my neighbourhood whose husband died when she was 33 or 34, they had been together for 10 years, she never dated again and is now well into her 50's, apparently he was a really good man. I think I would do the same for my wife, I'd have a really hard time not ending it as well. My wife has expressed on a few occasions that she needs to die before I do because if not she's coming in after to make sure I don't cheat on her in the next life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hockeyfreak79

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There's a new guy on one of my teams. He mentioned he's engaged & plans on adopting his fiancée daughter. WTF, I just sat there cringing. I so wanted to say something but kept it to myself, none of my business & I don't know the guy.

In today's society by woman he's considered a "real" man. He's screwed in a couple yrs when they split and he f*cked over paying child support for a kid that isn't even his! That's fubar, some people are just plain stupid.

Single moms = zero empathy from me
 
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