"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you feel guilty after masturbation or sex?

Do you feel ashamed/depressed after masturbating or having sex?

  • No. I do not feel ashamed/depressed after masturbating or having sex.

    Votes: 32 60.4%
  • I feel ashamed/depressed after masturbating only.

    Votes: 16 30.2%
  • I feel ashamed/depressed after having sex only.

    Votes: 2 3.8%
  • I feel ashamed/depressed after doing either one (masturbating or have sex).

    Votes: 3 5.7%

  • Total voters
    53

TillTheEndOfTime

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To elaborate on this poll:

What this poll is asking is do you feel "dirty" or "guilty" about masturbation/sex? If you masturbate or have sex, do you think about it after and feel ashamed or depressed in any way? Or do you feel there is nothing wrong with it and you're just doing what comes natural to you? Do you feel ashamed or depressed after masturbation but not sex? Or ashamed or depressed after sex, but not masturbation?



As you may know, I have put up a different poll before this one entitled: Ejaculation and your health -- Do you feel a connection?

This is a related poll. I am not going to say why it is related because I fear telling why it is related may skew the results in some way. For now I am just going to say they are related. I will reveal why later when I get enough votes.

I strongly encourage those who already voted in my first poll: "Ejaculation and your health -- Do you feel a connection?"
to vote in this one as well. This will help make the polls for relevant to each other for a purpose I will explain later.

After I get enough results from both polls to have a satisfactory sample size of people (hopefully 100+), I will put everything together and explain the whole point of this and why I am doing this.


Thank you everyone for your participation!


-TillTheEndofTime
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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only sometimes do i feel depressed or ashamed about having masturbated. Like when its been a long time since ive had sex and im home jacking off thats when i feel depressed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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As I am always eager to help those in surch of the higher truth:

I've only felt guilty after having sex when it was with a chick that wasn't up to my standards (e.g., brain-dead, butter-face, too chunky, etc.).
 
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