"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you feel guilty after masturbation or sex?

Do you feel ashamed/depressed after masturbating or having sex?

  • No. I do not feel ashamed/depressed after masturbating or having sex.

    Votes: 32 60.4%
  • I feel ashamed/depressed after masturbating only.

    Votes: 16 30.2%
  • I feel ashamed/depressed after having sex only.

    Votes: 2 3.8%
  • I feel ashamed/depressed after doing either one (masturbating or have sex).

    Votes: 3 5.7%

  • Total voters
    53

TillTheEndOfTime

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To elaborate on this poll:

What this poll is asking is do you feel "dirty" or "guilty" about masturbation/sex? If you masturbate or have sex, do you think about it after and feel ashamed or depressed in any way? Or do you feel there is nothing wrong with it and you're just doing what comes natural to you? Do you feel ashamed or depressed after masturbation but not sex? Or ashamed or depressed after sex, but not masturbation?



As you may know, I have put up a different poll before this one entitled: Ejaculation and your health -- Do you feel a connection?

This is a related poll. I am not going to say why it is related because I fear telling why it is related may skew the results in some way. For now I am just going to say they are related. I will reveal why later when I get enough votes.

I strongly encourage those who already voted in my first poll: "Ejaculation and your health -- Do you feel a connection?"
to vote in this one as well. This will help make the polls for relevant to each other for a purpose I will explain later.

After I get enough results from both polls to have a satisfactory sample size of people (hopefully 100+), I will put everything together and explain the whole point of this and why I am doing this.


Thank you everyone for your participation!


-TillTheEndofTime
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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only sometimes do i feel depressed or ashamed about having masturbated. Like when its been a long time since ive had sex and im home jacking off thats when i feel depressed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As I am always eager to help those in surch of the higher truth:

I've only felt guilty after having sex when it was with a chick that wasn't up to my standards (e.g., brain-dead, butter-face, too chunky, etc.).
 
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