"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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do you feel bad for taking a girls virginity?

powpow

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so in the past year, I have had the opportunity to take the virginity of three girls.

one was a 16 year old jpn high school student who wanted to give it up to a white guy. I obliged loool and made sure to make it a very special experience for her.

BUT

one was a 20 year old girl in dance school

one was a 22 year old senior college

The above two... it seems like if you are in your twenties and you are hot and you are still a virgin, you have put significant effort, or made a decision to keep your virginity.

I was asked to take it.
I declined.

I felt as if I was too dirty, or rather, they were too pure.

Do you guys take virginity when asked? For some reason my conscience just has something against this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The heck you talking about?!?

"too pure"? Girls are super perverted even tho they don't like to admit it.

Take it from someone who still in that situation.
 

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Only if it's on sale @50% off.
 

Stagger Lee

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If I could find a hot, interesting 22 year old virgin, that's marriage material right there lol... Or at least relationship material.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuanathan

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I have had three virgins. At work, no time to elaborborate.

Take it. Make it fun. Help her enjoy it. You should only feel bad if you deliberately hurt her or force her or have to manipulate or coerce her in which case you'd be committing rape and deserve a long and painful death.

Never feel guilty unless you're hurting someone.
 

powpow

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see the problem is I know since Im a douchebag.

I make girls feel feelings and then I tend to get bored and find an out, leaving a heartbroken girl behind.

would rather not have that as their first experiences. ideally it would be with a boyfriend who she trusted and loved and then they have both ways meaningful sex and then part and then I can pound it out with her.

maybe I'm caring too much, but my conscience just feels like that.

and johnchops - hell yeah I did. she was banging too. all tanned out with fake blonde highlights and wearing tons of accessories and ****. I went all out and got the deluxe love hotel room. stars on the ceiling and fish tanks and jacuzzi that changes colors and ****. I would say it was worth it. she cried lol

love me some statutory rape sex!
 

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JohnChops said:
You fvcked a.16 year old and your 24..... lol you got issues man.
Yep, very strange. But just remember not too long ago there were even older men on here saying it was perfectly normal to be attracted to 14 year old girls.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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