"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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do you feel bad for taking a girls virginity?

powpow

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so in the past year, I have had the opportunity to take the virginity of three girls.

one was a 16 year old jpn high school student who wanted to give it up to a white guy. I obliged loool and made sure to make it a very special experience for her.

BUT

one was a 20 year old girl in dance school

one was a 22 year old senior college

The above two... it seems like if you are in your twenties and you are hot and you are still a virgin, you have put significant effort, or made a decision to keep your virginity.

I was asked to take it.
I declined.

I felt as if I was too dirty, or rather, they were too pure.

Do you guys take virginity when asked? For some reason my conscience just has something against this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Leopold

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The heck you talking about?!?

"too pure"? Girls are super perverted even tho they don't like to admit it.

Take it from someone who still in that situation.
 

VladPatton

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Only if it's on sale @50% off.
 

Stagger Lee

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If I could find a hot, interesting 22 year old virgin, that's marriage material right there lol... Or at least relationship material.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonJuanathan

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I have had three virgins. At work, no time to elaborborate.

Take it. Make it fun. Help her enjoy it. You should only feel bad if you deliberately hurt her or force her or have to manipulate or coerce her in which case you'd be committing rape and deserve a long and painful death.

Never feel guilty unless you're hurting someone.
 

powpow

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see the problem is I know since Im a douchebag.

I make girls feel feelings and then I tend to get bored and find an out, leaving a heartbroken girl behind.

would rather not have that as their first experiences. ideally it would be with a boyfriend who she trusted and loved and then they have both ways meaningful sex and then part and then I can pound it out with her.

maybe I'm caring too much, but my conscience just feels like that.

and johnchops - hell yeah I did. she was banging too. all tanned out with fake blonde highlights and wearing tons of accessories and ****. I went all out and got the deluxe love hotel room. stars on the ceiling and fish tanks and jacuzzi that changes colors and ****. I would say it was worth it. she cried lol

love me some statutory rape sex!
 

MM92

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JohnChops said:
You fvcked a.16 year old and your 24..... lol you got issues man.
Yep, very strange. But just remember not too long ago there were even older men on here saying it was perfectly normal to be attracted to 14 year old girls.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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