"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do you feel ashamed by going out on your own?

Poonani Maker

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You know how people (in groups) Immediately think they're better than you when you're out alone. I like to reverse the psychology then and there, by showing that it takes a REAL man (without dead weight) to venture out on my own, in search of pvssy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Alkali

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I don't see either side as superior. But there are certain places you don't want to be alone at. Like the movie theatres, it would be weird for someone to ask "Who're you here with?" and say, "Nah, here by myself, I wanted to see Saw 4!"
 

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Supuriority mentality is never a good thing to imagin in this aspects of situations. As stated above, there are places you'd be better off going solo and enjoying yourself than going in group. Similarly, there are places you'd be miserable going solo. So it all depends on the occassion and the location.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
You know how people (in groups) Immediately think they're better than you when you're out alone. I like to reverse the psychology then and there, by showing that it takes a REAL man (without dead weight) to venture out on my own, in search of pvssy.
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It does take a strong mentality to go out on your own! I'm sure the women would be impressed as long as you present it in a positive way instead of coming across as somebody with no mates.

Another advantage is you have to meet new people instead of staying in the group all night...
 

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When I'm out alone I have noticed that groups tend to view me as lower value cause I'm being a "Loner" or something...

But thats irrelevant, If they talked with me I change perceptions around. When I'm out alone it truly is by choice. I like Solo-game.

but, yes. I have noticed that at first they will try and look down on you. Social Conditioning, They honestly cannot comprehend such a task.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Blackmm

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I would often just tell them that I met up with friends, but they're scattered (in a club venue).
 

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I actually recommend going out alone, it builds character and because you always end up on some crazy adventure.

I personally ALWAYS go out alone unless some friends call me up to roll with them. There is nothing wrong with rolling by yourself. Also no one really notices that your by yourself because if your like me your usually interacting with people so it just looks like your with the group.

But I think its alittle lame to not go places because your all alone...such as clubs, parties, movies, etc. Also its lame thinking the people in groups are superior or you being alone makes you superior.

It's rare I ever went sarging and had people with me. I tend to only do those massive sarges when I'm by myself and with friends or family I'll just interact with a few people here and there.
 

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I feel sort of ashamed to go out alone, you sort of looked down upon because your alone. It's not necessarily a good feeling. Some people like to do things by themselves. I don't really hang out with people.
 

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Its good to go out alone..because you force yourself to be social. If you really check out the club, you see people in groups not socializing with anyone else but the people in their circle...they appear to be having fun but theyre really not. Thats lame man, put yourself out there and talk to new people!
 

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takes heart to venture alone, depends on location etc. personally i wouldnt like going alone but if i feel i need to nothing would stop me. after all the only person you can really depend on is yourself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fuglydude

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I think going out to clubs by yourself is a great way to meet women.

Just go out and dance by yourself. You'll get tons of IOIs...if I was single this would be a primary avenue for me to meet/hook up w/ women.
 

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there's no shame in solitude
 
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