"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you ever suffer from back pain?

mjb3617

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I've had back issues since I was a teenager. Bulging discs, arthritis in my back, etc. The pain sucks when it flares up but I've been in the gym a lot and doing a lot of core strength. Back pain has not been an issue for awhile. I had to be very conscious of how I lift at the gym and when not at the gym. If I feel it starting to flare, I take some Motrin to keep the inflammation down so it doesn't progress to something worse.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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xplt

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I've had back issues since I was a teenager. Bulging discs, arthritis in my back, etc. The pain sucks when it flares up but I've been in the gym a lot and doing a lot of core strength. Back pain has not been an issue for awhile. I had to be very conscious of how I lift at the gym and when not at the gym. If I feel it starting to flare, I take some Motrin to keep the inflammation down so it doesn't progress to something worse.
I hear you. I had a whiplash injury from a car accident about ten years ago and the problems started to draw themselves through my whole musculature. So I've developed beginning arthritis in some areas of my spine, but gladly my condition has not progressed over the last years. When I stop working out I get stiff within a few weeks. Working out with correct form and technique has to be our priority #1
 

Scaramouche

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Hi Keenan,
Anyone who has done long periods of hard physical work suffers back pain from time to time,usually in the lower back....Mine has been arthrytic for decades...Coincidentally Jophil a dearly missed correspondent on this site advised me ten years ago about the use of simple old gelatine powder...He said his best mate was due to have a burst disc operated on but took gelatine instead...result no operation the disc healed...I take it regularly and also swear by it,am convinced that had I been aware of its efficacy in healing cartilege and lubricating joints I would never have needed bilateral prosthetic hips 11 years ago.
 
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