"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you ever sometimes are so relieved at getting a very good customer experience from a female rep that you get a lift from it?

MatureDJ

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Uh, I'm talking about at a business like a financial or law firm, not a "ranch". :rolleyes:

I've had to deal with a few different financial institutions to get stuff done, and at some of these places, I've had to deal with some of the vituperative beaches I've ever known (and my fans here know that I when I use that adjective, I mean business). But at one place, I have had a few women call me about a important concern that needed to get worked quickly, and the conversation and overall service attitude has been so wonderful, that I can't but feel like I had divorced those vitupes and move on to a new, warm, one. This one's gal voice was so calming that she could probably do well with ASMR videos on the side; I had to resist the urge to try some game. :eek::eek:o_O:cool:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Do you ever sometimes are so relieved at getting a very good customer experience from a female rep that you get a lift from it?"

If "getting a lift" is what you're in the market for, call out for an Uber, rather than pursuing a woman who will be a first-rate companion and lover
 

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I pretty much always get good (or better) customer service from women who deal with the public in their daily work.
I'm a flirt, I can't help it - Even to the point that the older ladies (and the younger one) working the pizza section at my local supermarket all know my regular order, and will often add a little extra of certain favourite toppings.

The woman I'm currently with (LTR) regularly comments** on the way I flirt with sales staff, I don't even realise I'm doing it most of the time :rofl:

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**It certainly helps her stay keen - she knows in the back of her mind that she could be easily 'replaced' if I wanted.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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