"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you ever sometimes are so relieved at getting a very good customer experience from a female rep that you get a lift from it?

MatureDJ

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Uh, I'm talking about at a business like a financial or law firm, not a "ranch". :rolleyes:

I've had to deal with a few different financial institutions to get stuff done, and at some of these places, I've had to deal with some of the vituperative beaches I've ever known (and my fans here know that I when I use that adjective, I mean business). But at one place, I have had a few women call me about a important concern that needed to get worked quickly, and the conversation and overall service attitude has been so wonderful, that I can't but feel like I had divorced those vitupes and move on to a new, warm, one. This one's gal voice was so calming that she could probably do well with ASMR videos on the side; I had to resist the urge to try some game. :eek::eek:o_O:cool:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BaronOfHair

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"Do you ever sometimes are so relieved at getting a very good customer experience from a female rep that you get a lift from it?"

If "getting a lift" is what you're in the market for, call out for an Uber, rather than pursuing a woman who will be a first-rate companion and lover
 

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I pretty much always get good (or better) customer service from women who deal with the public in their daily work.
I'm a flirt, I can't help it - Even to the point that the older ladies (and the younger one) working the pizza section at my local supermarket all know my regular order, and will often add a little extra of certain favourite toppings.

The woman I'm currently with (LTR) regularly comments** on the way I flirt with sales staff, I don't even realise I'm doing it most of the time :rofl:

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**It certainly helps her stay keen - she knows in the back of her mind that she could be easily 'replaced' if I wanted.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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